If you look young and timid, do people take advantage of you and force you to go to a hotel or somewhere?

Maezawa here. Just to add a clarification: > “Apparently, even if a man offers more money, he can’t make a second offer. Once a woman dislikes him, he’s lost.” There’s no rule saying that a second offer can’t be made. Our staff are expected to do everything they can for our members. So, if a member says, “I’ve lost contact with the woman I previously went on a date with. I’d like to make another offer,” we can arrange it for him. Please note, however, that the usual arrangement fee will still apply. That said, the man’s club name is shared with the woman when the offer is made, so there’s a good chance she’ll turn it down. Since she hasn’t responded even to direct contact, it’s only natural to assume that she’ll decline an offer made through the club as well. And even if she does accept the offer, I think the chances of repairing their relationship are still quite low. So the statement that “once a woman dislikes you, you’ve lost” is basically true. He’ll probably be happier looking for someone new. Many women join the club every month, so finding a new connection may allow him to enjoy happier days. I’ve gone a little off topic, but I wanted to add this clarification because I think most people don’t know that a second offer can be made.

Maezawa here. I’ve never heard of anyone being forced into it—because that would be a crime—but I have heard similar stories where someone couldn’t bring themselves to say no. So if you’re timid and have trouble refusing, it would be best to be careful. That said, if you can still clearly say no despite being timid, I think you’ll be fine.