My husband runs his own business, and I’m a stay-at-home wife, but he gives me very little money each month. He makes all kinds of excuses, but I know his income and finances myself. There are things that make me wonder what he’s spending the money on. Why can he give me only this much?
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I’m wondering whether he might be doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
Is it possible to ask whether he’s registered on this site?
By “starting a practice,” do you mean a doctor or dentist? Do people use that term for other professions too?
There are so many wives who are full-time homemakers. If they separated, they might not be able to manage financially, so exposing everything would only make things harder.
Considering the wife’s lifetime earnings, it might be wiser to simply let him know—without saying it outright—that you’re aware, and quietly tolerate it, rather than separate and receive a one-time settlement.
Besides, the husband will probably die first anyway.
If her family is wealthy and she wouldn’t struggle after a divorce, then, as Nana said, hiring a private investigator could be an option.
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Why would I tell you that? There are so many things wrong with this question.
Why assume it’s papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
Why not hire a private investigator first?
It could be a sex worker, an ex-girlfriend, or an affair.
And even if it is papa-katsu, Universe Club isn’t the only option. People find supporters through host clubs, dating apps, Twitter—the entry points are all kinds.
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First, is papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) even a possibility for you?
If it is, I think you should prioritize creating an environment where you don’t have to do it.
You can probably contact them, but I doubt they’ll tell you whether you’re registered.
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