On which date do you usually invite someone to have an adult relationship? And do you decide in advance what you’ll do?

Question

I’m a Type B, so hardly anyone invites me on the first date. It happens occasionally, though. Almost never on the second date either. The third or fourth date is the most common. Also, most people ask something like, “Would an adult relationship be okay on our next date?” So when someone occasionally comes along on the second date with the attitude of, “Of course we’re doing that today, right?” I’m like, “Huh???? That’s not what I had in mind at all.” But is that surprisingly the normal way to do things?

Answer 1

In the case of B, I think it’s more common for that to happen on the second meeting. That said, men who offer B are usually able to sense when a woman isn’t in that kind of mood. The occasional exception is probably just a man who can’t read the situation.

Answer 2

I always discuss the terms with women on the first date. So with women in the C or D category, I’ll naturally ask, “Would you like to continue after this?” And with women in the B category, I say, “I’ll invite you again next time, so please take your time deciding whether you’d be comfortable going home today.”

Answer 3

More precisely, before wrapping up the first meeting, I make a point of having a conversation that conveys I’m planning to see her again.

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