Tips
Mar 31, 2019 01:18
About a man who recently made me an offer.
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With the men I had met before, we would discuss future plans at the end of dinner, and if our terms matched, we would continue seeing each other afterward.
However, the man I met recently did not bring up any such discussion by the end of dinner, and then invited me to continue afterward. Since he seemed like a nice person, I decided to go along with it without saying anything, treating it as a learning experience.
He seemed to really enjoy himself and said he would like to see me again, and I also had a lovely time.
When we parted, he gave me an allowance, but it was the lowest amount I had ever received, and I felt disappointed in my own worth. I held those feelings back, thanked him, and we went our separate ways.
I feel bad saying this about him, but honestly, if that was the allowance, I would have preferred to end things after dinner only (no intimacy).
I realize that I was also at fault for not clearly discussing the allowance with him beforehand, but I wasn't sure when I should bring it up myself and ended up feeling stuck.
If the man doesn't bring up these matters himself, at what point should the woman discuss them with him? I'd appreciate some advice.
