I don’t think my upbringing or manners are particularly bad, but my height-to-weight ratio is close to 90, and I’m not very confident about my looks. Even at university, I was closer to the bottom of the rankings in terms of appearance.
With looks like mine, would I inevitably be rejected at the interview…?
Also, if I were rejected, would it be possible to apply for another interview after some time has passed?
I’ve been interested in this for a long time, but I’m hesitant because I feel like it might not be a good idea to apply in my current situation. On the other hand, I also feel that being younger might mean there’s still some demand for me. (I don’t consider myself exceptionally talented, but I do have a modest special skill and a related dream for the future.)
I’m sorry to bother you when you’re busy, but I would really appreciate any answers or advice.
Maezawa here.
Considering these two points—the fact that the difference between your height and weight is close to 90, and that you’re one of the least attractive people at your university—it does seem like things may be fairly difficult.
That said, you may simply have a low opinion of your own looks. Assuming you’re around average, the real issue would be your weight.
Some men do prefer fuller-figured women, so I find myself thinking that I might register if I were in your position.
In reality, though, it seems to get considerably more difficult once the height-to-weight difference is around 100.
Even so, it’s probably better to come in for an interview when you feel motivated, which makes this a difficult decision.
How about setting a goal of going on an intensive diet starting now and attending the interview one month later, on April 26?
If you decide that you’ll attend on April 26 whether or not you manage to lose weight, it should help keep you motivated.
Even if the diet doesn’t go well, you’ll still be committed to attending the interview.
Once someone fails an interview, we generally decline a second attempt, so getting another chance is difficult.
However, if you were to say something like, “I’ve lost 20 kg,” I think we might ask you to come in for an interview even if it were your second attempt.
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