Another question: When I make an offer, we move on to scheduling, but whenever I suggest a date and time, the other person often isn’t available. Then it ends with, “I guess this won’t work,” and that’s it. I thought the staff would help arrange another date afterward, but apparently not—it just ends there. Is it fair to assume that the other person looked at my profile and decided they didn’t want to meet me?

Maezawa here. > “This isn’t going to work,” and that’s where it ends. Staff are also in a difficult position because they can’t push too hard if the man hasn’t suggested another date. If they ask him to provide another date when he’s already said it won’t work, he might get upset, right? So if you’re still interested, I think it’s worth suggesting several alternative dates. You may find one that works for both of you. I’m sure the woman wants to meet as well, and the staff would also like to arrange meetings between people who genuinely want to see each other.