I’ve made my profile public and am using the reverse-offer system. About 30% of profile views lead to a “You seem wonderful” message. I’m not sure whether that’s a lot or a little, but I’m grateful to all the women who reach out. At the same time, though, I’ve started to feel bad that I can’t make an offer to everyone. It’s frustrating not being able to send even a simple thank-you or explain that I can’t meet because of the distance. For male members who receive a lot of “You seem wonderful” messages, how do you feel about it? I’m starting to think I might temporarily stop making my profile public.