My former papa’s persistence is honestly unbelievable (°▽°)
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Even though we didn’t part on bad terms, a former papa I stopped seeing over a year ago still messages me asking if we can meet.
I’ve also had a painful breakup with another former papa in the past, but when someone keeps saying they want to see me over and over without listening to my circumstances, I start to worry that they aren’t even reading my LINE messages turning them down.
Does doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) make people so desperate that they stop being able to read the other person’s intentions?
I can understand if it’s just temporary.
But do people really keep chasing a PJ for more than a year?
I finally left him on read and blocked him on LINE.
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Why didn’t you block and delete him when you broke up?
From a man’s perspective, wouldn’t seeing that his messages are still marked as read make him think the woman still has feelings for him?
I always block and delete someone right away after we break up. I like to keep my LINE contacts organized.
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I think that’s pretty common.
Then again, as with the other question, I’ve been fading out without telling them why I wanted to end things, so I suppose they may not know the reason and assume there’s still a chance.
For the record, the reasons are things like: I got tired of taking care of a small member that rarely gets hard, his daily “me” diaries became a hassle, and I couldn’t keep listening to his delusions about Bill Gates manipulating things so the pandemic wouldn’t end for another two years. They’re all things that are really difficult to say to him directly.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
There are plenty of people like that. They simply aren’t thinking things through, so I think it’s perfectly fine to leave the message unread and block them.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
That’s simply the state that particular man is in right now—it’s not something that happens just because he’s doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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