Tips Mar 20, 2019 23:28

I registered recently and had my first date just a few days ago.

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However, I had planned to arrive 15 minutes before the scheduled time, but due to a train delay, I ended up arriving exactly at the meeting time. When I realized I might be late, I contacted the club 20 minutes beforehand and let them know that I would likely be 5 to 10 minutes late, allowing some leeway. I was told that the club would also contact the man. Fortunately, I arrived right on time, so it wasn't a major delay, and I properly apologized to him. He also seemed very satisfied with the date itself. In a situation like this, is it possible for my rank to be lowered right away… I was also a little late for my interview because of a train delay, so I'm worried they might think I'm habitually late and lower my rank. It's been weighing on my mind… Of course, even if the delay was caused by the train, it was entirely my fault for not allowing enough time, and I deeply regret it. From now on, I will do my best to make sure this never happens again. Thank you in advance for your answers.
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Maezawa here. This time, you arrived exactly on time. Since the delay caused by the train was minor—only five to ten minutes—and you contacted them in advance, I don’t think your rating has gone down. The best way to know for sure would be to ask the staff directly. Also, your rank (or class?) and rating are separate things. It’s uncommon for your rank to drop because of being late. Normally, your rating goes down and you lose a star. Some men dislike even a ten-minute delay, so going forward, it would be best to allow yourself enough leeway to account for minor train delays. As for how ratings are determined, they used to be rather vague, but guidelines have recently been established. You may want to refer to the guidelines below and try to improve your rating. 【★ Rating Guidelines】 These guidelines outline the internal standards used when changing a member’s star rating. Actual decisions may vary, and the club does not completely guarantee a woman’s personality or character. Cases in which the rating is lowered 1. Cancellations related to visiting a branch If there have been three or more no-shows or rescheduling requests before attending the recruitment interview, the member will start with a ★2 rating. For cancellations or rescheduling related to a re-shoot, the rating will be lowered by one star from the second instance onward. 2. Cancellations after a date has been confirmed A cancellation on the day before a date will result in a one-star deduction per occurrence. In cases of particularly bad-faith cancellations, one star will be deducted regardless of how many days remain before the date. ※ “Bad-faith cancellation” refers to repeatedly cancelling or making other plans for personal reasons rather than work. ※ Cancelling on the day of the first date will result in immediate expulsion from the club. 3. When there is negative feedback After confirming the details with both parties, if it is clear that there was an issue on the woman’s side, her rating will be lowered by one star even if it is only one person’s opinion. If three or more consecutive reviews give low ratings regarding her personality, manners, or similar matters, her rating will be lowered by one star regardless of whether confirmation is possible. 4. Slow responses to messages from staff If there is no response for more than one day even after a reminder, and this happens two or more times, the rating will be lowered by one star. ※ Cases in which the rating will not be lowered ・Cancellations or schedule changes made at least two days before the date will not affect the star rating. ・The star rating will not be lowered if the possibility of cancellation has been noted in advance in the club’s comments. ・The star rating will not be lowered if permission has not been given to confirm negative feedback with the woman. ・The star rating will not be lowered if you notify the club in advance that circumstances may cause a delayed response. Cases in which the rating is raised 1. Prompt responses to messages from staff If most replies arrive within two hours and are written politely, the rating will be raised by one star. 2. A series of positive reviews If three or more consecutive reviews praise her manners, responsiveness, or similar qualities, the rating will be raised by one star. (However, this applies only if there is no negative feedback serious enough to warrant a one-star deduction.) 3. A series of dates without any particular issues If there are five or more consecutive dates without lateness, cancellations, or schedule changes, the rating will be raised by one star.
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