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Jan 18, 2022 20:53
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This is quite the ultimate dilemma… As Marika pointed out, I think everything could be solved by choosing a fairly nice restaurant with private rooms.
But since that alone wouldn’t really answer your question, I gave it some thought. There are all kinds of high-end restaurants that don’t have private rooms, so you might as well ask your companion directly whether they’d prefer a private room.
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
I think a private room makes it easier to talk, so I’d recommend choosing a stylish restaurant with private rooms.
I’ve heard that women generally prefer a place with a nice atmosphere over an expensive restaurant, but some women who have just registered are excitedly wondering, “How fancy a place will he take me to?”
So an upscale restaurant without private rooms might also be a good option.
> Apparently, if you suggest a horse sashimi restaurant to a woman whose hobby is fitness, she’ll be pleased that you were so thoughtful.
Speaking of horse sashimi…
Apparently, people who go horseback riding don’t appreciate being taken to a horse sashimi restaurant.（笑）
茉莉花
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Why isn’t a reasonably nice private-room restaurant an option? That would solve the problem.
I don’t like counters for a first date because you have to discuss the allowance. And the same goes for French restaurants where a waiter is standing right behind you.
I suppose it might be different with a B-type papa who doesn’t discuss the allowance that day.
I’m a C-type and leave the allowance up to him. My thinking is that if it’s less than I expected, there won’t be a second time. So when we’re leaving the restaurant, I can usually just ask, “Would you like to spend some time together after this?” But normally, you should come to an agreement before leaving.
Marika
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
For me, it’d be a delicious restaurant with a private room and a nice atmosphere.
It’d be embarrassing if they turned down an adult relationship, haha.
I make sure to do the first date properly.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
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That’s up to you, isn’t it?
Either way, I really don’t care.
—Paper Airplane
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
There it is—the classic question: curry that tastes like poop, or poop that tastes like curry?
What are we, elementary school kids?
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
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I’m Dai, a male member.
If those are the only two options, I imagine women would have a hard time choosing as well.
I understand that there aren’t many restaurants where you can request a private room for two, but I always try to find a private restaurant that isn’t too cheap.