Does this mean he’s not interested—or even dislikes me?
I’m a 20-year-old woman in my first year of university (I took a gap year), and I’ve fallen in love at first sight with a 19-year-old male classmate. I have a crush on him.
As for his personality, he’s extremely cool and always hangs out with a few of his male friends. I’ve never seen him talking to any girls. I asked one of our mutual male friends about him, and apparently he isn’t interested in romance itself.
Normally, the only time we talk is during group work at university. We do have each other’s LINE accounts, but we had never actually chatted.
Then, because I felt like my feelings were about to burst, I sent him a message on LINE saying something along the lines of, “I’ve started liking you because of things like this and that. You don’t have to date me, but would you let me keep liking you? Would it bother you to know that I have feelings for you?” He read it, but didn’t reply. So the next day, I sent another message saying, “It’s embarrassing, so please don’t tell XX (our mutual male friend).” Now, several days later, he still hasn’t even opened it. He hasn’t blocked me, though.
What do you think he’s thinking? Was I too pushy and did I mess up?
This is Papico.
It sounds like he’s probably not interested (T＿T)
If someone is genuinely interested, they usually wouldn’t leave you on read and would reply fairly quickly. Maybe the guy was just caught off guard because it was so sudden.
If you immerse yourself in something else and get on with your life, new opportunities can come along when you least expect them (｡•̀ᴗ-)✧
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He doesn’t dislike you—you’re just not getting anywhere with him.
Unlike women, men rarely develop feelings for someone they weren’t interested in just because that person pursues them. In most cases, they won’t even become interested.
That said, unlike women, men may still sleep with just about anyone and then disappear afterward, so please be careful about that.
—Paper Airplane
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I’m Nana Ayase☆
I also think there’s no chance.
Why did you confess when you only thought that was how they felt? They might be thinking, “What’s with this girl? She’s creepy.”
If you were going to say it, wouldn’t it have been better to tell them clearly, face-to-face, “Please go out with me”?
It’s embarrassing and sad, so hurry up and forget about them. Then work on becoming more beautiful. Don’t stop eating—go to the gym, and of course, graduate from university too.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I don’t think he was interested. People can stay completely calm when affection comes from someone they don’t like, so I get the feeling that the guy neither liked nor disliked you in particular.
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My daughter was born in 2001. From a dad.
Even if a man acts cool, he still has sexual desires. If you’re his type, he’ll definitely be interested.
Popular men get approached without doing anything, so you did the right thing. If there seems to be mutual interest, you should take your shot.
This one probably won’t work out. Men who get tons of messages from women tend to find it bothersome. Look for someone else.
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