Do you have a spouse, a live-in or otherwise de facto partner, or a “friends-with-benefits” partner outside of the person you see through the dating club?
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I’m single and devoted to one relationship at a time, though I’ve been divorced before.
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
To avoid any trouble, I only meet people through dating clubs.
I categorically refuse relationships that don’t involve financial support.
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Even outside the club, I somehow still have quite a few ongoing relationships:
My wife, plus my ex-wife and ex-fiancée, who have both been with me for many years.
A partner I’ve met more than anyone else—not officially my girlfriend, but more than a friend and less than a lover.
And a hairstylist and an esthetician I’m currently pursuing, hoping things will develop beyond friendship.
Huh, that’s actually quite a lot…
I guess the reduced frequency of seeing each other due to COVID makes it manageable.
—Paper Airplane
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I have a happy marriage and a husband I deeply respect.
As for the people I met through a dating club, I reply when they message me on LINE, and occasionally have lunch with them.
With the people I met in real life, I’ve prioritized our business connections, and they’ve become trusted partners.
The ones who spoil me relentlessly are always looking out for me because I’m far too busy. I feel bad, but even at Christmas I gave them carefully selected gifts and hurried back to work.
I don’t have any friends-with-benefits relationships.
—Akari
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I’m a messed-up, filthy old man—single, with no girlfriend and no luck with women.
I’m a scumbag who slaps women across the face with wads of cash and makes them spread their legs. So what?
A loser.
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I had a friends-with-benefits partner with incredible stamina, but then a papa (a male supporter) came along who could rival him, so we’ve drifted apart now.
Marika
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
I have a spouse.
We’ve stopped being intimate, but we still have a good relationship as a married couple.
I only have one partner through the dating club for anything intimate. There’s quite a large age gap between us, but it’s more of a mutual “like” than being lovey-dovey, and we get along well.
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I’m Flag Maker, a relationship columnist.
- Married, with a wife and children
- An occasional casual partner
- Currently seeing one woman
That’s my current situation.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Like the person asking the question, I’m single and focused exclusively on dating, though I’ve been divorced before.
If you read through the answers to various questions, you’ll probably get a sense of the kind of dating styles the other respondents have.
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