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She says she wants to lose her virginity—what should I do?

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I obviously think it would be better for her to date normally and share intimacy with a guy she genuinely falls for rather than lose it through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
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I’m Aya, a female member. I think it’s fine. You can’t really know whether she’s actually a virgin, but it might be true if she isn’t trying to drive the allowance up too high.
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I’m Dai, a male member. If she says she wants to, you’d go ahead regardless of whether she’s a virgin, right? Don’t you think awkwardly turning her down would hurt her more?
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出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a columnist. Give it your all when you receive an order. Otherwise, wouldn’t that be unfair to the girl who made that order right in front of you? After all, she must have made the request knowing exactly what she was getting into. Bringing up the “fundamental issue” now would just be cruel.
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This is Kida. That’s ridiculous. Do you remember the day you lost your virginity? Was it really that romantic? Did everything smell sweet and tart like lemons? Usually, it’s more of a fumbling mess because neither person knows what they’re doing. At the very least, she sees you as someone she can feel safe with as a person, right? Give her a wonderful memory—quiet, bittersweet, and unhurried. Otherwise, if you leave her alone, some washed-up host will end up getting to her anyway.
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here as well. If that’s what she wants, I think you should accommodate her. If you genuinely care about her, you might want to ask about her preferences, such as which hotel she’d prefer and what she’d like to eat. Naturally, I think it would also be good to give her a more generous allowance. P.S. As Mac mentioned, there are also quite a few women who feel anxious when it’s their first time with someone new.
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If she says she’s okay with it, I think you should fulfill her wishes. Marika
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