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Dec 27, 2021 10:05
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The people answering here talk big, but obviously they’re going to hide everything they wrote on the Q&A site and meet men anyway. I don’t understand this “the men they’re dating are pitiful” nonsense. The ones who are pitiful are the families being betrayed. I’m doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) because I need the money, but 90% of the men are married, and there’s no real choice except married men, so that’s what I do.
The most heartless people are the respondents who do papa-katsu with a straight face while betraying their partners’ families and girlfriends, right?
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木田(社長)
Male
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👨 Male
Other
This is Representative Kida.
You’re absolutely right. For most of our lives, we should’ve been able to spend our weekends however we wanted, yet once we become proper adults who earn money and support a family, we somehow lose that freedom. What irony.
Maybe you don’t get it because you’ve only ever seen good people, but just because a man is a larger-than-life type who’s hardly ever home doesn’t mean he’s a good papa, right?
You’ve already decided that papas are bad, and you’re making the family out to be victims without their consent. You’re clearly annoyed with the person who answered, too.
Sure, you can rant about how the country is ultimately to blame, but don’t you think the person who answered is doing what they can right now?
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a columnist.
Honestly, I feel sorry for you. The club’s official website says that 35% of members are married, but apparently 90% of your papas are married.
With that personality and lack of class, the good papas probably drop you and don’t continue seeing you, leaving only the lousy ones around you.
Women who are willing to take on those kinds of papas are important to the club too. Thank you.
I suppose it’s karma, but it must be tough doing this for the money. I’m rooting for you, so hang in there.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Are as many as 90% of them really married men?
I’m divorced and currently single, with no girlfriend. I never cheated while I was married.
That’s the basis on which I’m answering: what’s wrong with behaving in a way that doesn’t destroy one’s family?
Ultimately, the person asking this doesn’t understand because they’ve never had a family of their own.
I think very few people have no secrets.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I’ll answer too—Maezawa from the CEO’s office.
The most heartless person, in my opinion, is probably the questioner who uses anonymity as an excuse to criticize others with nasty words.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m in Seattle.
I’m single with no girlfriend—basically a seriously uncool old guy. I laughed so hard.
I only have a high school education, but I’ll pay ¥1 million to become a member, so please let me join. 😭
Other
I’m Rin, a female member of SALON.
I’m going to be critical of the respondent, but since you’re doing the same thing as them, you’re not really in a position to criticize, are you?
I feel that married men may ease their guilt a little by dating women through the club in exchange for money, since it feels different from cheating in a romantic relationship.
If it were only about a physical relationship, they could simply go to that kind of establishment. But it’s something similar to romance, yet not quite the same… It’s difficult to explain.
Perhaps that’s the kind of relationship they’re looking for when they register with the club.
Since paying money allows both parties to maintain the relationship, I believe the women also keep a certain distance and date these men without becoming genuinely emotionally involved.
And they don’t tell anyone. I consider that, in a sense, the hush money the men are paying. I don’t tell anyone either. Even anonymously, I have no intention of discussing the men I meet.
If you’re overwhelmed by guilt and feel that you’re doing something wrong, perhaps you should stop.
If you would prefer someone who isn’t married, why not only accept offers from unmarried men?
P.S.
If you need money, there are other jobs out there, and I believe you can earn money in other ways as well.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m a male member and a total loser.
I love jumping into the fire to pick up chestnuts, so here goes.
■Requirements for joining NEO Universe Club
・Single men with no girlfriend
・Single women with no boyfriend
So basically, you’d create a totally “white” dating club like this, right?
I’m a middle-school dropout with a low IQ, but I’ve tried my best to imagine it. Would there be about 100 members of each gender, with around 30 introductions a year?
It sounds like it would be insanely profitable, so President Kida, please launch this new club! m(_ _)m
Would the introduction fee be around ¥1 million?
I wonder what the going rate for the allowance would be...
And single men with no girlfriends are basically those creepy, unpopular older guys nobody wants, right...
And single women with no boyfriends are probably... too.
Other
Whatever you do, always treat the other person with respect.
Akari