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Dec 25, 2021 22:27
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Sorry for the trivial question.
Rather than telling me that neither is necessary, I’d appreciate it if you could choose one of the two.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Probably two pairs of socks.
But I think it comes down to personal preference.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
With socks, there’s always a chance they won’t work with the color of his suit or clothes, or simply won’t suit his taste. So if it were me, I’d go with a handkerchief. I remember getting one as a gift when I was in high school.
Of course, I’d appreciate the thought. If I received one, I’d say “thank you” on the surface, too.
I know the person asking says not to answer “he doesn’t need a present,” but honestly, just as women judge their own worth by the money or gifts they receive, I’m afraid that getting a cheap present might suddenly make me think, “Ah…so that’s about how much I’m worth?” Maybe around 5% of the allowance? (lol)
Wouldn’t it be safer to do something like celebrate together—having a small cake or some chocolates in the room, for example—something that doesn’t directly put a value on you?
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Date◎Yume, a male member.
If I had to choose, I’d say socks, too. They wear out easily...
I’d also be happy with socks and a handkerchief.
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I’m Nana Ayase ♡
As Kazu pointed out, I’d feel a little awkward if someone sent me something I didn’t like.
Handmade gifts are especially a no-go.
If it were me, maybe socks?
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t need socks that aren’t to my taste.
And I don’t really need handkerchiefs either.
I don’t need either one, but if I had to choose, I’d go with two pairs of socks.
I do appreciate the thought!