How can I tell whether I’m my PJ’s number-one papa (a male supporter)?
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What kind of person is your number-one papa?
I’m starting to feel anxious thinking she might be spending Christmas with another papa (a male supporter) lol
“Being ranked number one among all your papas…”
What meaning does that even have?
Well, men think in terms of aces and backups too, so I guess it goes both ways.
If you judge things by the days society gets excited and makes a fuss over, relationships formed through dating clubs become incredibly superficial—and I end up getting pathetic questions like this.
Isn’t it enough to simply value each other during the time you spend facing one another?
You met in a world outside the norm, so trying to force it to fit conventional standards is unrealistic.
Akari
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Kida here.
Congrats on catching real feelings, lol.
Don’t go asking creepy questions like that on Christmas. You’re going to ruin Yuki Ramen for me.
Still, you should be grateful to that PJ who’s made you feel like a virgin middle schooler again. Are you, though? Haha. Treat her well and spoil her.
You’re some kind of company president yourself, aren’t you? Your life was supposed to be nothing but golfing until you died.
Your life isn’t over yet after all.
Merry Christmas.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Last night, I was intimate with a “black” woman at a hotel, but I don’t think I’m her favorite or anything.
It was probably just because she happened to have an open schedule on Christmas Eve.
She told me directly that the papa she travels with is her number one, though lol.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
Can’t you usually tell from the amount of the allowance and the woman’s attitude?
I give my papas more love than anyone could, so they all see themselves as my number one.
In fact, I genuinely think every one of my papas is my number one, and I feel that comes across. I love them so much I’d almost want to marry them.
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I spent Christmas Eve with a woman who’s active in the entertainment industry. She came rushing to our date after finishing a meeting with the media.
She’s even more popular than our top girl, with countless men trying to win her over, yet she kept the entire evening open for our date, well into the early hours. She even surprised me with a gift.
It’s pretty obvious that, among all the men in her life—not just her other papas, but boyfriends included—I’m ranked number one, right?
That said, I still can’t say for certain that I’m definitely her number one. It just kind of feels that way.
A loser guy
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As Marika says, many people want to believe they’re the most important one to you (and that there aren’t any others in the first place).
I think it makes things more enjoyable if you let them believe that.
Most importantly, have confidence in yourself.
Paper Airplane
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This is Joe.
You’re no spring chicken, and I assume you’ve had your share of experience. So when someone like you says you’re “about to lose it” over some young girl drama, the old-timers at a Shimbashi izakaya would tease you with the painfully unfunny dad joke, “Save the stupid talk for Sundays and holidays.” Pull yourself together!
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I’m Osaka, one of the male members.
That’s for the other person to decide, and there’s no way to know for sure. You might have moments when you feel it, but maybe it’s just an illusion—or just a fleeting moment. By the next day, it may already be in the past, right? lol
But you can trust the fact that you’re able to feel that way, and that you care about someone so deeply it almost makes you sick. So let’s consider ourselves lucky to have met someone like that and become the person we are♡
Wanting anything more will just make you go around in circles. Though I guess going around a few dozen times can be fun too, lol.
P.S.
I go around in circles too, lol. I’m doing ridiculous things, but the Earth is going around in circles too, you know? lol
Even if you take the same route, the scenery changes.
Isn’t that good enough? lol
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Many papas think they’re her number-one papa—or even that they’re the only one. But in reality, she’s seeing multiple people. There’s no point in dwelling on it.
You might be able to have her all to yourself for a while by giving her an apartment and a generous allowance and practically keeping her confined, but she’d probably get stressed and leave soon enough.
I think all you can do is continue treating her with enough allowance and good hospitality.
Marika
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