I’m the person who asked this question.

This is Kida, the site representative. Seriously, thank you. It looks like the engineers posted an example sentence I’d jokingly written years ago without changing it. That’s awful. I checked the women’s comments because I was curious, and they’re all perfectly fine. I guess everyone wrote theirs while thinking, “Wow, this is terrible.” I’ll replace it right away. Wishing the questioner all the best! Thanks!!! Merry Christmas!

I’m Ayase Nana ♡ Did he really say something like that in front of the staff? Or was he that overbearing during the interview?

I’m Fuu, a columnist. So it was just an example sentence. I apologize for misunderstanding. If I were Fuu, I wouldn’t make an offer. You’re setting the bar way too high. On the other hand, any papa (a male supporter) who makes an offer based on that example probably considers himself handsome（笑）—which is a little scary. Neither the club nor its staff are perfect, so if you feel, as the questioner does, that you shouldn’t follow the example word for word, you can simply come up with your own wording.

I’m Taro, a male member. I guess when you use a good example, everyone just copies and pastes it. But as an example, I think it’s pretty effective, since it may actually reflect what many women really think（笑). A lot of people use the exact wording, “Nice to meet you. This is my first time signing up for a dating club like this, so I’m nervous and excited.” I’m not a big fan of it. Reading it makes me sigh. How does it make sense to use a template for your own feelings? I sometimes wonder whether they have no words of their own, and whether, even when we meet, they’ll just give template-like reactions at first, making it impossible to see what they really think. Once in a while, I see someone write that even though they’re registering again, and that actually makes me smile. I’ve seen people write something along the lines of, “I prefer generous people,” rather than bluntly saying, “I like tall, handsome men who aren’t stingy.” And surprisingly, that gave me a good impression. If that’s what you really think, it’s better to write it as much as possible. Of course, being completely straightforward isn’t always the best approach—you need to read the room and have some sense of what’s appropriate. That’s precisely why comments like that are valuable when someone is willing to write them. I pay close attention to those. In that sense, I don’t think it’s a bad idea to provide example profiles that boldly spell out hard-to-say truths. They force people to face their hidden feelings and give them a chance to think about them.

I’m Kazu, a male member. I answer questions after reading them carefully. So I think the point is that you shouldn’t just copy and paste the sample wording as-is. It’s not as though anyone is recommending copy-pasting. It means that women should think for themselves and write their comments, doesn’t it? Please read the answers properly.

Yes, it’s probably just for fun. The club itself is just a pastime, after all. Paper Airplane