Tips Dec 23, 2021 16:42

I can understand why waiting for a genuinely A-type woman to be won over by your appeal as a man and eventually open up to you would be an enjoyable game, but I don’t really understand why you’d do that through a dating club.

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Why not just pick someone up normally and pursue a genuine romantic relationship? Is there some difference I’m missing?
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member. I’ve never made an offer to an A-type woman, so this is just speculation, but in my experience, the closer a woman is to B-type rather than A-type, the higher her allowance expectations tend to be. They don’t want to sell themselves cheaply. So even with a true A-type woman, if you offer around ¥100,000 per meeting, you might possibly be able to have an adult relationship and even make her exclusive to you… Also, since she may not have much experience, she could be easier to deceive, and before long, you might find yourself getting something close to a free arrangement without realizing it… Since these relationships begin through a dating club, even if you manage to get the other person to open up physically, I think that’s only possible at first because of the power of the allowance. I also don’t want to date women who would simply go along with someone they met through picking them up on the street.
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木田(社長)
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This is Kida, the representative. I can understand why a woman who’s genuinely an A-type would enjoy continuing to receive an allowance and transportation costs with no possibility of things developing into an intimate relationship. But I don’t really understand why she would do that through a dating club. Wouldn’t it be easier to simply get picked up and treated by men genuinely interested in her? Or meet someone casually through an app? I’ve always thought of dating clubs as matchmaking services for mistress-type relationships. Am I misunderstanding something?
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フラグメーカー
フラグメーカー Male Column Send a reverse offer to this responder
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. Do you really find that kind of game fun? lol Women aren’t guinea pigs. I’m not interested in, or entertained by, such a clean-cut battle. I’d rather have some drinks, go to karaoke, force a kiss, grope her breasts, and then head straight to a hotel. Like breaking bones and cutting through flesh. I prefer that kind of gritty, raw battle. That’s what gets me excited. I think women are thinking, “Put that level of risk and passion into coming at me!!” lol A or D—it makes no difference. Once women show their true colors, they’re all equally troublesome in their own way.
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紙ひこうき
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中! B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです! 会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Everyone is different. We all have our strengths and weaknesses, so some people choose to leave meeting someone to a club, while others are free to seek connections wherever they want. It all depends on the individual. —Paper Airplane
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. I think it’s because having a meal with an allowance involved is less intimidating than picking someone up on the street. At a dating club, women will spend about two hours talking with you without treating you like a cockroach. After all, the women there are at least open to allowance-based relationships.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
As Kazu pointed out, exactly. It saves time. I’m busy making money and don’t have much time, so I pay to avoid the effort of getting someone to meet with me. Once we’re one-on-one, I can usually make things work. Basically, they’re willing to listen—and to talk as well. I had my fill of real relationships when I was younger, so these days I’m enjoying adult relationships (intimate). That said, I’m still active in the real world too. A Losing Man
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