The woman I recently made an offer to did not have “single mother” written in her profile, but I somehow assumed she was one because I had understood that she had children, so I met with her.

I think women are much better than men at keeping it from being found out. You don’t need to worry about it. Women can casually talk to their husbands right in front of someone, and they never run out of excuses to go out with female friends. As long as you make sure you don’t get found out, you’ll be fine. Paper Airplane

I’m Kida, the representative. Sorry for speaking so casually. So, you’re saying: “I didn’t intend for this to happen, but I met a married person and ended up liking them. How can I avoid trouble?” I looked it up online, and people were saying things like “Don’t wear clothes you wouldn’t normally wear”—silly advice like that. But honestly, I think that’s the right answer. If the other person is unmarried and they say, “Pay me ¥10 million in compensation,” you can’t just say you don’t want to get involved in trouble and walk away, right? Depending on how they act after someone gets in their ear, even if you bring in a lawyer, you’ll be stuck playing defense. Compared with that, if the other person is a sensible married person, you both share the understanding that you need to keep it from being discovered. So in a way, I think it’s easier. Still, even married politicians sometimes end up kissing their affair partners outdoors, so you deserve credit for having such a strong sense of danger.

I’m Dai, a male member. Women are likely to have safety precautions in place, so don’t panic if they don’t contact you right away. Take things at their pace and consider an arrangement that works for both of you. Also, think carefully about where you meet. When I meet women—including married women—who are worried about being found out, I arrange for us to have dinner in a private room and meet inside the hotel room rather than in the lobby.

I’m Nana Ayase ☆ If you’re married… decide in advance what days and times you can both message each other on LINE. Don’t call out of the blue. Travel and late-night meetups are out of the question. It also depends on what kind of husband the woman has, but… Just doing this means you won’t get caught at all. I’m telling you—you won’t get caught.