Female members, when you receive an offer, isn’t it a burden to travel somewhere outside the area where you live? Even if the man covers transportation costs, isn’t the time and effort involved in traveling a hassle? I understand that this depends on each woman’s individual values, but I wanted to ask to hear the opinions of those who answer questions here.
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If the man is going to pay for a woman’s transportation, don’t you ever think he should be the one to travel instead?
I’m Dai, a male member.
I would never ask a woman to travel a long distance. Basically, I’m always the one who goes to her.
That said, I might ask her to come as far as a neighboring prefecture.
For example, meeting a woman from Osaka in Kyoto, or meeting a woman from Tokyo in Shin-Yokohama…
After all, both people are setting aside their time. So I find it a little strange to say that only the man should be the one traveling.
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I like taking trips by bullet train or plane—it feels like a little getaway.
I’m going to meet my papa (a male supporter) by bullet train again this month.
What gets me down is meeting up in places like Saitama, which takes about an hour from Tokyo.
Honestly, it makes me think, “Why don’t you come to Tokyo?”
Marika
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I’m a male member who always ends up on the losing end.
I cover the cost of a Green Car ticket, and I add extra for an adult relationship (intimate).
For women from Tokyo or Hiroshima, I add 30,000 yen;
for women from Osaka, 20,000 yen;
and for women from Kyoto, 10,000 yen.
That’s how I set the terms. So if I travel to Hiroshima, I pay 100,000 yen, but if she comes to Nagoya, I’ll make it 130,000 yen, for example. We’ve never had any disputes.
I cover Green Car transportation costs, but there’s one woman who comes by overnight bus—a real trooper.
I see it as her own sales effort, so she gets to keep the difference. I think it’s kind of endearing, so I let it slide.
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I wouldn’t tell a man to travel, but sometimes he’ll come to me without even being asked.
If it were me, since I’m in Osaka, I’d be happy meeting around Namba or Umeda, where I’m less likely to be recognized.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Apparently, some women do find it a hassle. For example, I’ve heard of women turning someone down because he suggested a faraway meeting spot for a letter date, or ending an ongoing arrangement because the area the man preferred was too far away.
That said, I’ve never heard anyone frame it as, “The man should be the one to travel.”
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