I’m in my 50s, so I know women around their 30s would probably be the best fit for me. But somehow, most of the offers I make end up being to women in their early 20s.
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I’m aware that the mismatch often leads to things not working out.
But this is instinct, isn’t it?
Sometimes I even wonder whether I should follow my instincts, even if it means things don’t work out.
What do you think?
Is it still not wrong if it often ends in failure?
I’m Aya, a female member.
I recommend thinking about what you’re really looking for in a relationship.
Are you looking for a long-term mistress, or do you simply want to be intimate with young women?
As you probably know, the younger the woman, the more critical she tends to be of men in their 50s.
There are quite a few girls here who think, “I’m only after the money!! That damn old man should get on his knees and beg!!” If you’re okay with that, all you can do is keep rolling the gacha.
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Kida here, the representative.
If your instinct is to gamble because you enjoy losing, then hey, why not?
There’s no point asking other people whether you’re making the right choice.
I’ll just point out one thing you’ve got slightly wrong.
You seem to think things will work out if you target people in their 30s—but you’re joking, right?
If your marketing isn’t working when you target women in their early 20s, there’s no way it’ll suddenly start raking it in the moment you switch to women in their 30s.
But honestly, all of us—including me—are buying a dream. Nobody has the right to tell us what to do with it.
Whether buying a Porsche that you’d never drive on a rainy day has any meaning or not is up to you.
Universe is still selling dreams that can never be fully reached, so keep dropping your money here.
That’s life, isn’t it?
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
I understand how you feel.
I’ve also made offers because I was attracted to someone’s youth, but sometimes the conversation and chemistry just don’t click, depending on the person.
Lately, influenced by this Q&A site and my past experiences making offers, I’ve stopped making offers to students or women under 20 unless they’re really my type（笑）
If you make plenty of offers, don’t you think you’ll eventually meet someone who satisfies you?
There are women in their early 20s with great personalities, and there are also people in their 30s who look and feel as youthful as someone in their 20s.
I think it’s about the person, not their age.
I hope you make lots of offers and meet a wonderful woman.
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☆This is Nana Ayase☆
If you’re getting poor results, learn from the experience. If this were a job, it would be a huge loss, right?
Try making offers to about five people in their 30s or older once, and I think you’ll understand.
It’s a waste of time and money.
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It depends on the person.
Are you looking to meet someone you can realistically take your time building a relationship with, or do you want to prioritize your own preferences and increase the number of one-time partners you have?
But if you simply follow your instincts, you’re no different from a wild animal. Humans are capable of learning, though.
Marika
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
You say it’s “just right,” but what makes you think that? I’m not really sure what you mean by “instinct,” either.
I’m in my 40s, but I make offers to women in both their 30s and 40s.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Being in your 50s doesn’t automatically mean you’ll fail when approaching women in their 20s.
If things aren’t working out, I think it’s better to consider that there may be another reason.
First, check whether your allowance is sufficient, whether you come across as clean and well-groomed—including your scent—and whether the intimacy is focused only on your own needs. Make sure the relationship isn’t becoming something the woman is uncomfortable with.
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