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Dec 19, 2021 09:36
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Their profile says “lawyer,” but when you meet them, it turns out they only aspire to become one.
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木田(社長)
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I’m Kida, the representative.
Honestly, it kind of makes him look like Kei Komuro, which is pretty cool, right?
For all we know, he could be a New York-based paralegal earning 20 million yen a year.
Did you know job titles are often made up as casually as character classes in Final Fantasy?
You know—“monk,” “hero,” and so on.
If Tadashi Yanai joined, they might even list his occupation as “apparel store part-timer.”
Have you heard of that boxing tournament where only wealthy people can compete?
CEOs and chairmen of publicly listed companies actually punch each other for real.
They’re not trying to one-up each other with their job titles or positions—they’re standing in the ring as men.
Dating is the same.
Remember: a job title is nothing more than, in Rocky Balboa’s words, “the Italian Stallion.”
Huh? You don’t know what I mean? Google it, idiot.
Other
I’m Nana Ayase ☆
As the other respondents have said, please leave negative feedback.
He probably thought that simply claiming to be a lawyer would attract women.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
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Universe member
I’m Dai, a male member.
Basically, if he pays the allowance properly and knows how to treat you well, I don’t really see a problem with it…
The real issue would be something like a nurse stating that she doesn’t accept offers from doctors, only for a doctor to lie about his profession and make an offer anyway. (Since there’s a risk of being recognized, after all…)
In that case, you should leave the club negative feedback.
But in a case like this, where someone aspiring to become a lawyer lists their occupation as “lawyer,” all I can think is: if you’re going to do it, at least stay in character until the very end.
Other
Is someone aspiring to be a lawyer basically a NEET?
As long as he gives you a proper allowance, why not?
Actually, instead of fooling around with women, he should be studying, lol.
Marika
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Fuu, a column writer.
One advantage of a dating club is that you can choose who you meet.
Even the club itself can’t possibly know everything about every member. Since they conduct interviews, it’s still better than an app, though…
For example, just as with the person asking this question, if someone constantly says negative things and isn’t enjoyable to be around, you may not want to make them an offer. But even if you ask the club not to register someone like that, they can’t necessarily do anything about it.
Unfortunately, chalk it up to bad luck and decline to continue seeing them.
Please do give the club feedback, though, so other members don’t have to go through the same unpleasant experience.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member.
Since she didn’t pay the setting fee, you probably can’t expect a refund, but please leave her some negative feedback.