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Dec 19, 2021 00:02
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The men at these clubs are old enough to look like grandfathers, after all.
Aren’t the people who manage to keep doing papa-katsu just good at fooling themselves mentally?
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This is Kida, the representative.
Look, I don’t care what your values are, but I don’t think you should talk as if you represent the views of PJs who are doing just fine.
The way you put it makes it sound like PJs are saying, “How can you even touch the dick of some disgusting, creepy old guy?” Is that what you mean?
Do you prefer hosts’ dicks?
Honestly, I think that says even more about your mental state.
I get it. There’s something that makes you feel superior about touching someone’s dick for money rather than paying to touch one, right?
Maybe you should take another look at your own mental state.
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I’m Ayase Nana☆
Men in their 40s probably have children around the questioner’s age, so they’re not really old men.
I wonder what age group the questioner received offers from—men in their 70s? 80s?
You don’t have to push yourself. Why not quit?
Why don’t you stop right now?
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Some people may feel that way, while others may not.
In life, it’s best to do what you want and not push yourself.
—Paper Airplane
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
It depends on the person.
Where do you draw the line between “older” and “old”?
Some people in their 60s still look youthful.
I think many people who can be intimate with younger women are young—or at least look young—both mentally and physically.
The largest age group among the club’s male members is people in their 40s, at 39% (according to the women’s page on the club’s website).
I’m sure there are women who feel the money doesn’t justify the activity.
And if, like the person asking this question, you have to deceive yourself mentally just to do papa-katsu, I think you shouldn’t force yourself to continue. It would be better to quit.
Other
I’m Aya, a female member.
As Marika pointed out, you can’t exactly call someone in their 40s an old man. Still, he’s obviously older than a boyfriend your own age, so I think you just have to keep at it until you meet someone whose looks you’re attracted to.
Other
Around 20 and you can’t even handle men in their 40s?
If that’s the case, papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) may not be for you.
If you receive offers from many people, your options will include a wider range of ages—not just elderly men—and, more importantly, you’ll be in a position to choose.
So instead of complaining, pick someone you like from among the many men out there.
Marika
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
It sounds like you’ve only received offers from men in a pretty narrow age range.