I'm curious about being adored by a man. I'd love to experience it.

Kida here, the site representative. When you’re drowning in love, are you really drowning in the other person? Aren’t you actually drowning in yourself? You may look like you’re charging full speed ahead at work, but inside, you’re consumed by anxiety. You’re afraid that the image of yourself as someone who’s got it all together will fall apart, so you can’t show your true feelings. Isn’t trying to project your own ideal onto someone else and mold them in your own image as an outlet for all that what you’d call obsessive love? Compared with that kind of love—the kind that leaves you drowning—wouldn’t disposable love actually be better, since at least you’re not drowning in it? Ah, I didn’t answer the question at all… Sorry.

I can tell that one of my current papas really cares for me. It may not exactly be what you’d call being doted on, but he’s usually gentle and soft-spoken—with a surprisingly mild, almost herbivore-like demeanor for a business owner. But in bed, he’s incredibly uninhibited, and the contrast completely gets to me. He literally licks me from head to toe, sometimes giving me little playful bites, and the more embarrassed I get about certain places, the more persistently he licks them. I often find myself thinking that his employees would be shocked if they saw their CEO like this. When I get so overwhelmed by the combination of embarrassment and pleasure that I lose all sense of myself and become completely undone, Papa seems delighted by the sight of me. I have a fairly serious, professional job myself, so it seems Papa is happy to see me let loose—and even happier that he’s the one who brought that side of me out. I believe this question was from a woman, so younger readers may not relate much, but I don’t think what we have is the kind of disposable relationship where we simply use each other and move on. I want to cherish him, and I want to be cherished too. Marika Oh, and Akari, you were right—being completely spoiled is definitely wonderful. In everyday life, given my position, no one does that for me anymore (lol).

I think people who don’t expect anything in return are extremely rare. If someone dotes on you, there’s often a price—or sacrifice?—that comes with it. It is easy when you’re being doted on, though. Still, I’d rather be spoiled rotten than controlled. It feels better and is more fun. Akari

I’m Dai, a male member. I married my wife because I absolutely adored her. Now that we’re divorced, I enjoy dating through an exclusive dating club because I want to maintain a clear boundary with women by seeing them under the understanding of an allowance. That being the case, I do develop feelings for women I see over a long period, but I don’t think I would ever adore them. When we part ways after seeing each other once or twice, I don’t think either of us feels any love. So, I’m not looking for disposable love.

I’m Nana Ayase☆ Yes, I’ve been truly cherished before. That kind of person is number one to me. I don’t like someone who just hands over money and doesn’t even care when I’m feeling unwell.