I have a papa (a male supporter) I haven’t been able to see for about three weeks because of trouble at his company, and I’m waiting for him to get in touch. (He’s a serious person, and contacting him would make him worry about me, so I told him I’d wait.) When meeting after a somewhat exhausting time like this, what kind of attitude from a woman would make you feel touched and think, “I’m glad I chose her”?

Not blaming him for not being able to meet Telling him that I missed him Showing concern for him without coming across as presumptuous When he’s tired from work, would it be better for me to let him pamper me less and instead be the one to pamper him more? He’s a papa (a male supporter) I really love, and based on our relationship so far, I don’t think this is an excuse to fade out on me (or at least I hope not. If it were, I’d be really devastated). Since we’ve gone longer than usual without seeing each other, I wanted to use this as an opportunity to deepen our relationship, so I’m asking for advice.