How can I avoid vaginal pain during sex with a papa who takes a long time to finish?

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There’s a papa (a male supporter) I see who takes a long time to finish, so penetration lasts forever and it’s really difficult for me. I wish we could take our time caressing each other, but he just keeps penetrating me until my vagina starts to feel sore and irritated. Even when I tell him, “Sorry, I’m starting to feel sore,” he says things like, “You’re wet, so it’s fine,” or “Do you want to try using some lubricant?” (Lubricant tends to irritate my skin, and when it dries during long sex, it gets sticky and painful, so I don’t want to use it.) He still won’t pull out at all. It’s honestly so painful. Should I stop seeing this papa? If anyone has any good suggestions, please let me know.

Answer 1

I’m Tetsu, a male member. There’s no way to resolve this if you keep saying, “That’s not okay, and neither is that.” Since you’re receiving an allowance in exchange for intimacy, if there are things about it you simply can’t tolerate, then you’ll have to give up the allowance.

Answer 2

I should quit soon. I’m straying way too far from the rule that both sex and dates should be enjoyable for the other person. Paper Airplane

Answer 3

I’m Dai, a male member. I tend to take a while to finish too, but some women aren’t very resilient down there, so if it’s too much for them, I stop there. That said, some women get very wet with plenty of foreplay and can keep playing for as long as you like. You and that man simply aren’t a good match, so I think you should both look for someone else.

Answer 4

I’m in Seattle. If you can manage financially, you should quit. I also have delayed ejaculation, but once it goes past 10 minutes, I call it quits myself. It wears me out too.

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