Would a papa (a male supporter) be put off if I went shopping with him before our first hotel visit (during the day) and then received a pay-per-meeting allowance of 50,000 yen at the hotel?
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Would he think I was asking for shopping on top of the expense of the pay-per-meeting allowance?
“Just buy it yourself with your allowance” may be what he really thinks.
It’s just that he doesn’t want you, the questioner, to ask him for it.
If he feels that he’s met someone special, whether it’s the second or third time—or even on the very first day—he may take things in that direction himself and set the mood.
Men want to see a wonderful woman enjoying herself, too.
That said, if he’s the kind of man who can’t gauge his compatibility with a woman in a short time, I think it’s best to assume that this simply won’t happen.
—Paper Airplane
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I’m Aya, a female member.
I wouldn’t recommend it, as it could jeopardize your future relationship. From the man’s perspective, it definitely won’t leave him feeling good.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I think most men would be put off by that. I don’t understand why someone would ask for gifts on top of the allowance.
And I don’t think it’s just me—most people probably feel the same way. At another dating club, I was about to make an offer to a woman when a staff member told me, “We’ve received multiple reports that she asks for gifts, so we can’t recommend her.” Of course, I decided not to make the offer.
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