Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.
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📅 Sep 2, 2018 09:40
I’ve been enjoying reading everyone’s posts. A while back, around May, I believe, I posted under the title “Straight Talk About Allowances.” Since then, thankfully, I’ve taken the same woman on two overnight trips, and we had a wonderful time. Since our adult relationship only took place while traveling—and that was what I had originally wanted anyway—I feel that, in a sense, I achieved what I set out to do. After the second trip, she e...
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📅 Sep 1, 2018 19:18
There are many women on Twitter and other platforms who proudly claim to make one or two million yen a month through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). Do the women registered here think that’s actually possible?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito♪, a columnist and active male member.
Since the question is open to anyone who can answer
(even though it says registered female members),
I’ll answer based on my experience as a man.
Among the women I’ve dated, three consistently earned ¥2–3 million a month.
I imagine there are many more who make around ¥1 million.
All three were involved in modeling or show business.
I feel you need exceptional looks, name recognition, and intelligence to reach that lev…
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📅 Sep 1, 2018 11:27
Does the level of hotel a man chooses affect a woman’s enthusiasm for the arrangement? A nice room at a luxury hotel can sometimes cost more than the allowance, which makes me feel like things are getting a bit backwards… If you’ve had a hotel you really liked, one you never wanted to go back to, or a hotel you consider the bare minimum, please share your experiences as examples.
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, the columnist♪
I mostly stick with the SPG group.
Or I look for a larger room on Ikyu. Haha.
Sheraton, Westin, and these days, perhaps the Ritz-Carlton?
At the Sheraton, it’s around ¥20,000.
At the Ritz, you can have meat at the teppanyaki restaurant, then move on to tempura and finish with the sushi counter.
I don’t recommend ordering a set course, since it comes with food you don’t really need.
I also like Park Hyatt, Palace, and the Peninsula.
I absolutely…
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📅 Sep 1, 2018 05:58
I joined a dating club because I want to experience a pseudo-romance that feels as close to real love as possible, while keeping the risks under control. For someone like me, what makes it “as close to real love as possible” is having a relationship “without money involved”—with a woman I don’t have to feel I’m buying with money—so I check with the women I approach to see whether they would be willing to date under those terms. I’m inte...
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📅 Sep 1, 2018 00:07
How does Kida, the representative, date? Does he ever make offers to women from Universe? Surely he isn’t registered with any other clubs, right? I’m so curious I can’t sleep.
💬 Answer from 木田（社長）:
Thanks for the naughty question.
Kida here, answering.
I’ve registered with a dating club too, you know.
Don’t underestimate me.
A little while ago, I went to an interview at “Ashinaga Ojisan,” and when I tried to pay, they said, “You’re Mr. Kida, right? Um…” I apologized profusely and left.
About three months ago, I attended a Paters party.
Of course, I applied through the general admission slot.
I became friends with a tall woman whom I nicknamed “Maasai.”
It wa…
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📅 Aug 31, 2018 19:36
I’m currently a university student. I’m interested in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and I thought it was mostly about going out for meals or dates. But do most people generally expect an intimate relationship?
💬 Answer from 木田（社長）:
Thank you for your question.
Kida here with my answer.
Since one of our female members has already given an excellent answer, that is essentially the correct one. Still, I’ll respond from the perspective of an older man representing the “papa” side.
If I asked:
“I’m a business owner who currently goes to work every day. I’m interested in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and I assumed it mostly involved meals and dates, but do most people generally ask for money?…
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📅 Aug 31, 2018 16:08
How should I feel about girls who are 18 or 19 and identify as dating type D? How much experience could they possibly have selling their bodies at that age?
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📅 Aug 31, 2018 13:29
Is it possible to specify the qualities you’re looking for when making an offer? For example, “a virgin flight attendant with a large bust,” or something like that…
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📅 Aug 31, 2018 12:30
After becoming intimate with a woman, suppose you later meet the same woman for a roughly two-hour date—just dinner, just a movie, or no intimacy because she’s feeling unwell that day. In those cases, do you still give her the same allowance? Or just transportation expenses? I’d like to know what other male members do.
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📅 Aug 31, 2018 11:20
Is it difficult to get a second interview?
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📅 Aug 31, 2018 10:35
I believe Japan’s most underutilized human resource is frustrated wives, but I get the impression that Universe doesn’t have a particularly high proportion of married women. Don’t you have any interest in tapping into this vast untapped potential and helping people?
💬 Answer from 木田（社長）:
Thank you for your question.
Kida here with an answer.
Yes, they do exist.
I don’t really care about helping people, but I absolutely love the phrase “frustrated wives.”
The word “wife” alone is so evocative that it practically makes you think, “She must be frustrated, that wife,” even though they probably aren’t actually frustrated. Still, “wife” is a wonderful word.
And whether these wives are frustrated or not is, frankly, beside the point.
Because they aren’t frust…
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📅 Aug 31, 2018 02:15
I’m already registered and would like to have my photos retaken. How can I get in touch to request a new photo session?
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📅 Aug 30, 2018 22:08
How much annual income do you need to enjoy papa-katsu?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito♪—an active male member and columnist.
Try putting yourself in the woman’s shoes.
From a woman’s perspective, annual income doesn’t matter that much.
- A man may have a high income but little money he can freely spend.
- A man may have a low income but be able to use business expenses.
- A man may have a low income but earn from stocks, pay less tax, and have plenty of disposable income.
There are all kinds of situations.
So, in the end, the key question is:
“H…
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📅 Aug 30, 2018 20:17
I got lost near the station on the day of my interview and ended up being very late. They didn’t take any photos that day, and I only filled out the questionnaire; they didn’t even ask me to submit any identification. Does that mean they decided I wasn’t suitable for membership?
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📅 Aug 30, 2018 16:35
Some women change their dating type from A to B, or from B to C. What are the main reasons for this, in your opinion? Subjective answers are perfectly fine. Is it mainly to increase the number of offers they receive? Also, is the offer rate highest in the order D, C, B, A? *The questioner is a male member.
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📅 Aug 30, 2018 14:27
Are women who have new photos taken a few months after registering generally popular and receiving lots of offers? Does the club ask them to have their photos retaken? I’d appreciate any insight, as I’m trying to decide who to choose. *I’m a male member.*
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📅 Aug 30, 2018 04:42
Do you hardly get any offers unless you’re in the Platinum or Black class?
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📅 Aug 29, 2018 18:39
I’m planning a trip with someone I usually spend just under five hours with for 50,000 yen. How should I think about the allowance in that case?
💬 Answer from ジョー・ルビコン:
I’m a male member. I’d like to share a small—and rather sad—experience of mine.
I went to Europe with a woman I met on another site. We met there and spent four days together. I covered everything: round-trip airfare (business class, of course? Apparently she’d never flown economy—lol), the hotel, meals, and souvenirs (lol, again). On top of that, I paid her the usual allowance—naturally, four times since we were together for four days. Even so, she apparently wasn’t satisfi…
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📅 Aug 28, 2018 14:54
If you’re a virgin, do you absolutely have to have sex on the first or second time you meet? Do men dislike virgins because they can’t have sex?
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📅 Aug 25, 2018 12:19
It’s true that “going natural” is basically a man’s selfish preference. I admit that. But some people deliberately use dating clubs (at a very high cost) because they want a world where desires that can’t be fulfilled elsewhere are accommodated. Isn’t that similar to a woman’s selfish request to “pay ¥50,000 for dinner only”? If such unreasonable preferences aren’t accepted, where do the staff think the real benefits of dating clubs lie...
💬 Answer from 木田（社長）:
Thank you for your question.
Kida here with an answer.
Osaki’s “NO SKIN MY LIFE” somehow got overwhelmingly more likes than anything else.
I honestly don’t get it (lol).
This is just my personal opinion, but—
In this day and age, when you can buy home appliances with Bitcoin, don’t you find it strange that there are still no ways to prevent pregnancy besides condoms, the pill, and IUDs?
They even said on *Sekai Fushigi Hakken!* that condoms were made from sheep intesti…