Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.
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📅 Aug 25, 2018 08:46
Regarding the pill issue, isn’t this really beyond the club’s involvement? The club’s role ends at making the introduction, and after that it’s “free love,” right? Please leave it up to the people involved. If either person says no, it simply doesn’t happen; if both agree, there’s no problem. I don’t need an answer from staff pretending to be so innocent. By the way, quite a lot of women take the pill as a precaution while participating...
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📅 Aug 24, 2018 20:12
Thank you for your continued support. I’m a woman. I have a question about bra cup sizes. I feel there’s quite a gap between a woman’s actual cup size and the cup size men imagine. Since the cup size is based on the difference between the underbust and bust measurements, some women with a slim underbust may be a D cup even if their breasts don’t look particularly large, right? So I was wondering: should I list my bust size based on how ...
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📅 Aug 24, 2018 03:22
Is it okay if I’m plus-size?
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📅 Aug 23, 2018 23:25
I’m interested in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) in Sapporo. Do I have to go to Tokyo for the interview?
💬 Answer from 木田(社長):
I’ll have Kida, the representative, answer as well.
You’re the one who found our website’s anonymous question box, and that’s your question?
Are you expecting some funny answer or a witty comeback?
I’m sorry, but nothing comes to mind.
Just for reference, we sometimes receive requests like:
“I live in Sapporo, but I don’t want to date locally. Please register me with the Tokyo branch.”
It’s possible, but it’s a little more complicated.
It’s not as though Yuzuru Hanyu w…
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📅 Aug 23, 2018 21:14
I’m a woman. If I leave the service once for personal reasons, can I register again later?
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📅 Aug 23, 2018 17:46
Why has the page-view count for the Cinderella column for women gone down? An article had around 1,600 views last month, but only 1,100 this month. Is that the average number of views per month? It isn’t a cumulative total, is it?
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📅 Aug 21, 2018 14:26
I currently work in the adult entertainment industry. Should I be honest about it during the interview, or keep it hidden? Are sex workers not allowed to register in the first place?
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📅 Aug 21, 2018 14:09
On average, how many offers does a male Universe Club member make in a year?
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📅 Aug 20, 2018 16:18
I’ve heard there’s still a chance of pregnancy even when using condoms. Do you also take low-dose birth control pills? What do you think about a man suggesting that a woman take them?
💬 Answer from 木田(社長):
Our representative, Kida, will answer as well.
Or rather, perhaps this is more sympathy than an answer, but I believe the questioner’s intention is:
“I want to take double precautions by using both condoms and the pill.”
Some people take the pill to manage their health, so I think it’s also possible to view it as, “It’d be nice if he covered the cost of the pill, too.”
I’m guessing that’s probably the angle you had in mind as well.
If so, in reality, there may be two rea…
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📅 Aug 20, 2018 14:57
How are respondents chosen when the designated respondent is a staff member? Regarding the previous question, I don’t think it was answered accurately at all. There are definitely members in their 20s. The answer should have stated the average age, followed by the percentages in their 20s, 30s, and so on. This response comes across as a careless answer of “I couldn’t be bothered to look it up, so I’ll just say something like this.” Howe...
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📅 Aug 19, 2018 23:33
Are there any male members in their 20s? I’d also like to know the average age of the male members.
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📅 Aug 14, 2018 18:00
People in the Black and Platinum tiers tend to be what you’d call tall, right? What do people like that generally think about short older guys? I know everyone’s different, but do they just put up with it and go on the date, or do they not care at all? When making an offer, should I mention something like, “I’m a short older guy—is that okay?” I’ve been too intimidated to make an offer until now. (笑)
💬 Answer from 木田(社長):
A former female member shared her thoughts on the “short older guy problem,” so Kida is posting them here on her behalf.
I always enjoy reading the question box.
For some reason, I just couldn’t ignore that “short older guy” who keeps popping up in the question box, so I wanted to share my thoughts.
Height really doesn’t bother me at all.
After all, the men you meet through a dating club aren’t your boyfriend, you’re not marrying them, and they’re not someone you’re going…
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📅 Aug 12, 2018 13:49
I’m a man—can I still get started from Kagoshima?
💬 Answer from Responder:
Thank you for reaching out.
Universe Club has 14 branches nationwide. In the Kyushu area, we have branches in Fukuoka and Okinawa, and although there aren’t many, we do have women who live in or around Kagoshima.
Some women are also open to traveling to other areas for dates. In that case, you would be responsible for additional expenses such as transportation costs, but we can search nationwide for women who may be available.
That said, considering the travel time, some w…
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📅 Aug 10, 2018 18:10
For male members, isn’t the most mentally painful situation when she doesn’t go to a hotel on the first meeting and they’re unable to meet again afterward? Even men with plenty of money probably see this frustration as a separate issue from their wallet. In other words, it was an “investment mistake,” and they feel just as angry with themselves as they do with the other person. I understand that this is an inevitable part of dating club...
💬 Answer from 木田(社長):
Thank you for your question. I’m Kida, the representative, and I’ll answer it.
Two possible answers came to mind, so I’ll share both.
●The model answer
・To narrow the gap as much as possible between female members’ understanding and that of our male members, our concierge Nanase conducts educational activities, such as papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) seminars for women in general.
・Through our blog and columns, we help women understand what male members are looki…
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📅 Aug 10, 2018 17:20
Shouldn’t meeting in someone’s personal car be prohibited for a first meeting? Don’t you think it’s extremely difficult to say no and potentially very frightening?
💬 Answer from 間宮(銀座スタッフ):
I’m Mamiya from Universe Tokyo, and I couldn’t just let this go unanswered.
When a date is offered, there are indeed cases where men can choose from a form, with the option to discuss it if it’s a no-go. There are also dates where you’re picked up only in a VIP car with a chauffeur.
From the woman’s perspective, I’m sure many people feel uneasy about it. If possible, I’d prefer to make it a no-go too!
However, perhaps a car is a man’s important personal territory… Saying t…
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📅 Aug 10, 2018 15:13
Are all women in the Black Class beautiful? Can someone become Black Class even if she isn’t particularly attractive, because she has a prestigious career or comes from a very privileged background?
💬 Answer from 間宮(銀座スタッフ):
Mamiya from Universe Tokyo, Chiba, answering your question!
Women in the Black Class are truly beautiful and seemingly flawless. That’s what I’d like to say, but beauty is very difficult to define, and there are as many different standards as there are people, so it’s hard to make a blanket statement...
As you said, having a glamorous career or coming from a very good family can certainly be valid criteria as well! It definitely appeals to men’s aspirational side, doesn’t i…
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📅 Aug 10, 2018 13:44
A question from a woman: I’m looking forward to an upscale dating club exclusively for women aged 40 and over. There are quite a few affluent married women who are interested and are attractive and understand how dating clubs work. My main question is: For women in their 40s who receive offers, does it matter whether they’re married, single, divorced, or have given birth? What kind of appeal do male members see in women in their 40s?
💬 Answer from 間宮(銀座スタッフ):
Mami here, aspiring to become one of Universe Tokyo’s glamorous women in her 40s, jumping in!
Did the representative ever hint somewhere about a dating club exclusively for women aged 40 and over? They also mentioned possibly going overseas someday, so I never took it too seriously and just thought, “Oh, I see.”
I’m picturing a glamorous, celebrity-like image, especially since they apparently have connections with wealthy women.
Married, unmarried, divorced—since this isn’…
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📅 Aug 10, 2018 00:25
I’m curious about the going rates. Would receiving 50,000–80,000 yen per meeting as an allowance be considered good? We spend around 3–4 hours together.
💬 Answer from 間宮(銀座スタッフ):
Mamiya from Universe Tokyo here!
I was curious too, so I looked into it. I searched for “dating club,” “going rates,” and “time.”
…There are some pretty relevant things written about it.
I think you’ve found yourself a good papa (a male supporter), don’t you?
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📅 Aug 9, 2018 21:23
Thank you. If I register as Type A after turning 30, will there be almost no demand for me?
💬 Answer from Responder:
Universe Tokyo’s Aizawa here.
I wouldn’t say there’s absolutely no demand, but it may be difficult unless you have something unique that sets you apart from other women—such as an unusual background or a hobby you can talk about from your own experience—or unless you’re exceptionally attractive.
Some gentlemen only make offers to Type A women, but even among them, those who have something that truly makes them stand out tend to receive more offers.
In fact, age doesn’t mat…
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📅 Aug 9, 2018 12:12
Does the likelihood of getting offers drop sharply once you hit your 30s?
💬 Answer from Responder:
This is Kitamura from Tokyo answering.
Once you reach your 30s, the chances of receiving offers do drop sharply—but that’s only in statistical terms.
A 35-year-old model will receive more offers than an unremarkable 20-year-old, and it’s not as though offers suddenly plummet the moment you turn 30.
Plenty of beautiful women in their 40s receive lots of offers, too.
Women who receive offers = attractive women
But it’s not just about looks. They take care with their appear…