Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.
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📅 Oct 20, 2018 18:07
Don’t you feel that the dating skills of 18- and 19-year-olds have been declining year by year? In the past, 18- and 19-year-olds often entered dating clubs after gaining experience through JK refresh services, so although they were accustomed to this kind of interaction, arrangements could proceed smoothly and with less hassle. What are your thoughts when interviewing them?
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📅 Oct 20, 2018 16:25
I was told that “the dating rate for women in Dating Type A is an astonishingly low 2.1%.” I’m shocked. When the probability is that low, I can’t help but wonder whether it’s right to let women register, considering the risks they face. And from a business perspective, is it really worth the cost?
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📅 Oct 20, 2018 16:13
Disappointment, frustration, and anger. This is really unacceptable. Is it still like this? ↓ “Her relationship type is a completely straightforward A type. If she were a B type, she’d get tons of offers~” She didn’t even fall for my bad-faith attempt to steer her that way. (abridged) En Mamiya
💬 Answer from 間宮（銀座スタッフ）:
Sorry for the very belated response!
I’m Mamiya, the person in question. As soon as I saw this post, I immediately went in and edited only my comment.
I feel truly guilty that this wasn’t the most sincere way to handle things.
I do steer women toward certain dating types during my personal interviews! (Gasp—major confession.)
I suppose it’s probably my own unorthodox approach, but what I want to see is a glimpse of a woman’s desires.
For example:
“I’ll get more offers i…
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📅 Oct 20, 2018 08:25
There’s a limit to the mistress market. Why not develop the field of arranging extramarital affairs alongside it? Facilitating compensated relationships is something anyone else can do, after all. A huge source of revenue lies in the areas others are reluctant to touch. People aged 60 and over make up the largest group, both in terms of population and disposable income.
💬 Answer from 木田（社長）:
I’m very sorry for the extremely late reply.
I’m Kida, the representative, and I’ll be responding.
Thank you for the grand idea of developing an intermediary service for extramarital affairs. I’ll start working on the concept tomorrow.
When you say there’s an enormous untapped source of revenue, that means there’s also a major unmet need, correct?
The founder of Ashley Madison must have made a fortune.
I don’t believe every affair is completely wrong, but if an affair ca…
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📅 Oct 20, 2018 08:12
How about offering more mature versions of the promotional videos too? (The model in the current video is incredibly cute, though.)
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📅 Oct 20, 2018 08:09
Watching “Tasogare Ryuseigun” with Kura (50) and Miporin (48), I had a thought. Couldn’t we uncover more women who are genuinely looking to meet someone rather than seeking money? I think it’s a huge untapped gold mine beneath the surface. If they joined the club, the setting fee wouldn’t change, after all.
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📅 Oct 18, 2018 18:53
Can a female member’s rank be raised or lowered after it has already been determined based on information from the member herself or the staff’s judgment? For example, if she goes from curvy to slim, or gains weight instead—or if she changes jobs and takes on a more prestigious position?
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📅 Oct 17, 2018 22:49
At the dating club, I came to know disappointment and emptiness far more than excitement or pleasure. It cost me quite a bit along the way, but I gained invaluable life experience, so I’m actually grateful. (Leaf, thank you for your thoughtful answer.) I feel that learning about this kind of emptiness before entering old age may prove useful in the rest of my life. Are there many others who have had similar experiences? What do you thin...
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📅 Oct 17, 2018 10:38
How much do women understand about the emptiness some older men feel when they pay for companionship? (Does this question even make sense?)
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📅 Oct 16, 2018 10:36
Is there a good way to keep myself from wanting to get intimate on a first date with someone whose dating type is B?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
This is Saito, the columnist ♪
If you have lunch with someone who’s a Type D before meeting a Type B, and start seeing her (H), you won’t feel much desire for the Type B afterward… lol
If you have a strong sex drive, you could arrange to meet another Type D at a bar afterward. That way, you’d probably send the woman home like a gentleman—and quite promptly, too.
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📅 Oct 15, 2018 13:52
Have you ever met a woman who was so wonderful that you told her, “This isn’t the kind of place someone like you should be coming to,” and sent her home? Please tell me secretly—without Representative Kida finding out.
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📅 Oct 14, 2018 16:14
If the club learns that a woman is planning to leave, could there be a system to notify only the male members who have added her to their favorites, provided she agrees? I think it would reduce the disappointment of thinking, “I was planning to make an offer, but she disappeared…”
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📅 Oct 14, 2018 12:19
I’m a male member. Would it violate the rules to tell a female member I’ve already been introduced to and gone on a second or subsequent date with that she was featured in the picks on the men’s members’ site? ※I understand that telling her about her class or profile details is not allowed.
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📅 Oct 12, 2018 12:51
Could you remove your colored contacts before the photo shoot? It’s hard to make an offer when I can’t really tell what you look like.
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📅 Oct 12, 2018 00:16
Nice to meet you ^_^ I’m a single mother who spends nearly every day focused on work and raising my child, and I’m unsure about joining. I’m confident in my appearance and in my ability to genuinely care for someone, but… Since it’s difficult for me to go out at night because of work and childcare, would meeting during the day be an option?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, a columnist♪
I’m currently an active male member, but I’m only available to meet during weekday afternoons, so office workers can actually be a difficult match for me.
There are male members like that at the club too.
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📅 Oct 10, 2018 17:53
What was the most memorable male member you’ve ever met? (No need for hypocritical answers.)
💬 Answer from Responder:
Imai Saki from the Tokyo branch here.
I’d like to share the story of the male member who left the strongest impression on me.
I met with a gentleman just the other day, and he was actually in his twenties—the youngest man I’ve ever interviewed. I’d been noticing that more men in their thirties were joining lately, but someone in his twenties was astonishingly young. And on top of that, he was such a fresh-faced, charming young man.
Not long after we met, I couldn’t help as…
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📅 Oct 10, 2018 12:37
Leaf-san’s latest column, the tent edition, was so wonderful that I was utterly captivated by their brilliant writing (ﾟДﾟ ) The thrilling, bashful shifts of the heart that men and women experience despite their age—that is the true appeal of dating. I’m deeply grateful to Leaf-san for making me feel that so vividly. I couldn’t help getting excited, so I wanted to ask: are you still available for offers, Leaf-san? (I couldn’t help feeli...
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📅 Oct 10, 2018 10:55
Just as casinos limit how often you can enter, shouldn’t dating clubs also place limits on the number of offers you can make? The so-called “Don Juan of Wakayama” case involved a certain dating club in the background, and the unscrupulousness of the operators who exploited a severely sex-addicted client to the bone was so appalling you wanted to look away. As for me, I’m 50 years old, belong to six clubs, and spend my days and nights dr...
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
It’s Saito, the column writer♪
Even if you impose restrictions, it won’t have any effect—they’ll simply use other clubs instead.
Casinos that restricted entry didn’t prosper. Their investors are lamenting the decision.
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📅 Oct 9, 2018 17:46
I feel like more women have recently been registering with “I want to save up for studying abroad” as their reason. Is this actually true, or has it become a popular excuse among women because it’s a convenient way to say they need a substantial amount of money? If it is genuine, then from a man’s perspective, it’s almost like paying money only to have her become unavailable later… At least personally, if I see the word “studying abroad...
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
This is Saito, the column writer ♪
I think it’s just the way the times are changing, much like Leaf mentioned.
Compared with the past, having study-abroad experience is now considered fairly important when applying for jobs. As employers, we’d also choose someone who took a year off to study abroad.
Companies doing business in Japan, where the population is clearly declining, are the ones that will face the real challenges.
Students know that studying abroad gives them an…
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📅 Oct 9, 2018 17:29
I’m the one who got scolded for suggesting a Yahoo Auctions–style “price reduction request.” I also think Leaf’s counterproposal—“I’d like to be able to ask men to raise their offers too”—would be highly effective. Isn’t Universe’s weakness that it still lacks a system for improving the matching rate from both directions? I’d love to hear what the clever people in the back office think, too. Hey, can’t we come up with something?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, the column writer♪
Sorry to jump in.
This discussion seems like it could go on forever unless someone brings it to an end, so I thought I’d give my two cents.
The man asks for a lower allowance, and even then the woman still reacts like this…
The woman (Leaf-san) is perfectly entitled to request a higher allowance, but is this really what happens when someone makes a generous offer? (Sorry, Leaf-san… I’m just using you as an example!)
Isn’t this getting a l…