I’m Saito, a column writer ♪
> I’ve heard that the going rate for an adult relationship (intimate) is 30,000–50,000 yen per meeting.
Since this is a freely negotiated relationship, it varies from person to person. You’d need to be more specific—such as saying you mean an ordinary office worker—for that to mean anything.
> Are there women who receive 50,000 yen per meeting for dinner only (no intimacy)?
Maybe celebrities.
Also, when an arrangement has continued for a long time and I start thinking, “Maybe I should stop the adult relationship (intimate)…” I give her the full allowance anyway.
There are countless models, so I rarely make offers in the first place. Even among finalists in the three major beauty pageants, there are plenty of them, so it doesn’t impress me.
As for her future, she has merely set up a company for appearances, saying things like she wants to value the environment and help children around the world.
In my case, the odds of giving a woman more than 50,000 yen for dinner are under 1%.
If it’s 10,000 yen, I’ll give it to anyone, I suppose. I’d even give it to a club employee in Ginza who showed me the way. If a woman who isn’t one of the club’s regulars does her best, I’ll give it to her right away.
I’ve been seeing a lot of questions like this lately, but it’s difficult to tell what level you’re actually at.
If you’re genuinely unsure, I think you’d be better off registering with Universe and giving it a try.
You won’t know whether to say, “Reality isn’t as easy as I thought,” or, “I had an experience that felt like a dream,” unless you actually join.
I’m sure you’re worried, but no amount of armchair theorizing can compare with a single real-life experience.
