I’m Joe, a columnist. I hope you don’t mind me sharing my own answer.
I believe there are quite a few male members who are happy with a dinner-only relationship. This is based on the experience of a woman I once introduced to someone.
- They met once a week for dinner only, and he gave her an allowance of ¥100,000 each time.
- In addition to the allowance, he bought her roughly ¥100,000 worth of things whenever they met.
- The arrangement lasted two years.
Even by a rough calculation, she received more than ¥20 million in financial support. What’s especially interesting from a man’s perspective is the reason behind it: apparently, he told her, “I have a new grandchild now, so I’ll dote on you just like I do my other grandchildren.”
Hearing this made me realize that there are all kinds of relationships like this. I hope it gives you something to think about. Incidentally, the relationship ended because he passed away.
I’m Saito, a column writer♪
Question posted: 2018/11/06 01:40
Are you the same person who made the post above?
As for how much you can earn, it’s customary for a man to give you ¥5,000–¥10,000 after dinner. That’s essentially transportation money, intended to cover the time and expense of getting ready, traveling there and back, and having dinner together.
(Since you’re looking to make a lot of money, I don’t think there’s much in it for you.)
It may be possible if you’re attractive enough that he’ll even take you shopping.
There are plenty of men who say things like, “Date me and I’ll buy you whatever you want,” or “I’ll give you ¥1 million,” but only a handful of women actually end up in that situation.
Even from a man’s perspective, ¥1 million is more than enough to have plenty of fun without spending it on an ordinary woman—and it’s enough to meet a celebrity.
That said, this is ultimately a matter of free romance, so there are men willing to pay any amount for someone they find attractive, even for dinner only.
I know an ordinary woman who is sometimes paid ¥150,000 just for dinner.
But she’s the only one among the more than 300 women I’ve met.
