Female members can send reverse offers to male respondents they like by emailing the administrator to express their interest. Male members can learn which female members are interested in them by answering questions and sharing their opinions.
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📅 Nov 1, 2018 23:32
If a female member I was introduced to, whom I had been seeing seriously about four times, hasn’t contacted me for over a month, should I assume the relationship is over and stop reaching out?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, the columnist♪
Let’s assume it’s over.
Actually, you should probably figure that out around the second time it happens.
There’s also a chance you lost touch because something happened with your phone or contact information. But even then, let’s accept it as fate and move on.
Think of it as training for building yourself up, and even if it feels like a hassle, go out and make new connections.
The only revenge you can take on her is to become such a great guy t…
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📅 Nov 1, 2018 16:07
Once you join a dating club, don’t you start looking at every cute or beautiful woman you pass by and wondering if she’s registered too?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, the column writer♪
I feel the same way.
At a Ginza club, I discreetly asked a woman who gave off the impression that she might be doing papa-katsu, and she gave me this wonderful answer:
“I’m registered with Universe under the name ○○.”
I’ve had two lucky experiences where I hit it off with women from Ginza clubs the first time we met, without even paying Universe’s offer fee. Three times if you include regional clubs♪
I’m no Don Juan, but as papa-katsu is b…
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📅 Nov 1, 2018 16:02
I can only spend around 1.5 million yen a year on dating. Is it impossible to have a satisfying relationship with a black- or platinum-tier woman on that budget?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
This is Saito, your vulgar columnist ♪
It’s totally possible if you keep each date and allowance under ¥100,000 and meet once a month.
That said, this only works if you can be satisfied with a little fun once a month…
Platinum members get a lot of offers, and some women take a pretty assertive attitude, so some men say Black is the hidden gem. And once you go a little farther from the city, there are still plenty of genuinely sweet women.
Some women even say they don’t ne…
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📅 Nov 1, 2018 15:59
Don’t you ever feel bad about yourself for being unable to have a relationship with a woman unless you pay? That was the biggest issue I faced after joining a dating club, and it troubles me every day.
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
It’s columnist Saito here♪
What are you talking about? You joined a dating club where you can’t even be introduced to a woman without paying up.
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📅 Nov 1, 2018 15:56
What ultimately matters most when it comes to winning a woman’s heart? If the relationship won’t continue unless money is involved, is money the answer after all? Assuming that’s a given, what else matters?
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📅 Nov 1, 2018 15:53
What are the chances of finding a long-term partner through a dating club—around 10%? And how long does the relationship with her typically last? About a year?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m Saito, the columnist ♪
When you develop a mutually positive relationship that continues over time, I feel like it’s rare for the woman to be the one who ends things. In fact, among relationships that last over a year, I get the impression that men are more often the ones who call it quits.
Rather than being “found,” it’s simply difficult to end a relationship between a man and a woman in the first place.
Since papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) became popular, co…
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📅 Nov 1, 2018 15:49
I feel unsettled knowing that she’s seeing other men besides me. Is there any mindset that can serve as a quick fix?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
It’s Saito, the columnist♪
I’ve had the same experience, as have people I know.
Instead of dwelling on those unsettling feelings, use that time to arrange meetings with new women. Then you won’t end up in that situation.
If it still hurts, fill your schedule with even more women. Eventually, you’ll stop feeling anything at all.
(It’s a rather interesting phenomenon.)
That’s how I got past that point.
Sorry to make this about my own experience, but men are creatures who r…
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📅 Oct 31, 2018 16:11
How do you handle the exchange of money?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
This is Saito, the column writer♪
It’s hard to tell without a clear subject, but since the dating club doesn’t get involved in payments, you should discuss and decide that mutually with the other person.
I’ll answer this from my own perspective only.
① Regarding transportation expenses
I think either at the beginning of the first meeting or when saying goodbye is fine. I give it to them when we part.
② If it develops into an adult relationship (intimate)
I think you s…
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📅 Oct 31, 2018 07:41
Could you tell me about the main patterns for dates after the first meeting? I’d like to know how the dates usually go, how long they last, and the typical allowance. I’m a male member.
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
I’m columnist Saito♪.
For me, it’s about three hours or so. Even for dinner, places like Sugalabo or Amamoto, where the meals take a long time, don’t work for me. Whether it’s sushi, yakiniku, or French cuisine, I try to keep it to an hour—or two hours at the absolute most.
That’s about the limit of what I can gain from the information women provide. Since male members also have high incomes—and therefore high hourly rates—I don’t think there’s any reason to keep them tied …
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📅 Oct 30, 2018 00:17
I’m a male member, and sometimes the reply email I receive from the club after completing the post-date survey is garbled. In those cases, is the survey content still coming through clearly to Universe Club?
💬 Answer from 斉藤さんだぞ♪:
This is Saito, the column writer♪
You should show that email to the staff and ask them directly.
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📅 Oct 29, 2018 18:19
There are definitely men who prefer plus-size, older, or unattractive women, so if I seem like a good person, will I still be accepted? (From a male member)
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📅 Oct 28, 2018 13:22
What is the average length of time that male members stay registered?
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📅 Oct 28, 2018 11:41
Hello. I registered a month ago. Unfortunately, I still haven’t received any offers. Since I’m Dating Type A, I understand that if I were a man, I probably wouldn’t be interested unless the woman were exceptionally beautiful. (The staff member who handled my registration also explained that Type A members overwhelmingly receive fewer offers.) However, simply waiting doesn’t really suit me. I know I’m not a model-level beauty, but is the...
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📅 Oct 27, 2018 21:51
A woman I know registered, and due to certain circumstances, I need to have her withdraw as soon as possible. I understand I can’t make an offer or contact her myself, but is there anything that can be done? If this is left unattended, the male members and the club may suffer harm.
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📅 Oct 27, 2018 17:47
I’ve heard you have more than 100 employees, so why are only a select few staff members answering questions?
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📅 Oct 26, 2018 19:46
If you know of any differences in the characteristics of female members at each branch, please tell me what you know.
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📅 Oct 25, 2018 01:25
Even after leaving, can’t you delete data such as my phone number? I appear under “People You May Know” on LINE, and I’ve also heard that copies of our driver’s licenses are taken and may have been leaked…
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📅 Oct 24, 2018 10:30
Is the science of dating useful in the world of dating clubs as well?
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📅 Oct 24, 2018 07:56
I’m not sure how to use, find, or read the calendar feature. Could someone please explain it? (Male member)
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📅 Oct 23, 2018 20:23