I’m a male member who has been active at the club for a year.
I’ve received offers from more than 20 women through the club,
and currently see two of them regularly.
Separately, I recently made offers to two B-level women, but neither worked out. One of them brushed me off in what felt like a “take the money and run” situation.
The first woman told me that she would be on her period on our next date, so we only had dinner. She also said that her birthday was coming up and asked me for a gift worth around ¥200,000. We had already agreed on an allowance of ¥80,000, so I wondered whether ¥40,000 just for dinner that day was too much. And I was also thinking, “Why should I spend ¥200,000 on top of that?” But we agreed that our next meeting would be without an allowance, and I bought it for her.
After that, she blocked me on LINE.
I just laughed at myself, thinking, “I’m such an idiot.”
It certainly wasn’t relaxing or healing.
Have any of you had experiences like this?
I’m Saito, a column writer♪
Don’t worry.
We’ve all been through it. LOL
I’ve been fooled plenty of times too.
I’ve even had men promise me Harry Winston on the very first date—more than once. LOL
At this point… it’s nothing but material for a story.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
So you made offers to 22 women and ended up encountering one like that? I’m not sure whether that’s a lot or a little, but I think you were betrayed because, deep down, you understood that women like that are extremely rare, yet decided to trust her anyway.
I can also understand how meeting 20 people without ever being deceived might lead you to think that nobody would try to deceive you.
Basically, people who do that are very rare—perhaps one in a thousand, if that.
Going forward, I don’t think you should tell them that there won’t be any allowance next time.
Without an allowance, they have no reason to come meet you. Even if they initially intend to meet, they may start thinking, “Why should I meet him if there’s no allowance?”
So when giving a gift, rather than saying something like, “Next time, let me have it for free,” it would probably be better to say something along the lines of, “I’ll buy this for you and bring it when we meet next time.”
That approach should reduce the chances of being deceived.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
No, there isn’t.
If it were me, I’d laugh it off with something like, “Asking already… isn’t that a little soon? lol Let’s wait and see how things go a bit longer. Give me some time too, lol.”
I treat good people well, but I don’t go out of my way for bad ones. That wouldn’t be fair.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
There’s no chance.
Personally, I would have ended things as soon as she asked for a gift worth around ¥200,000 just because it was a special occasion…
In this case, you get blocked on LINE after she leaves because you negotiated by saying, “I’ll pay more this time, but next time there won’t be any allowance.”
You should understand that women who are Type B are generally quite selective about who they have an adult relationship with.
Also, please understand that the amount of the allowance isn’t necessarily the most important factor.
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I’m a male member, Paper Airplane.
No, there isn’t.
At the club, making demands means you see the other person as someone you don’t really care about—someone you’d be fine cutting ties with.
With a Type B girl, I’ve never met one who could even answer the allowance question, let alone discuss it.
> Since things had already been settled at 8,
That means she was incredibly calculating from the start. If she had come back with an answer clearly above 50,000 yen, you should have taken that as a sign she wasn’t really Type B.
> I was thinking, “Twenty thousand? Seriously?” but we agreed that the next meeting would be without an allowance, so I bought it for her.
You didn’t need to buy it, but the idea of “no allowance next time” isn’t acceptable. Did she suggest that herself? If so, women can be truly terrifying…
From now on, why not only accept offers from women who joined within the past three days? It seems like that would help minimize your losses.
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This is columnist Fuu.
You really got taken advantage of. That must hurt—I can imagine how you feel. Please give the club some feedback so other papas don’t go through the same thing. We’d really appreciate your cooperation.
Since B probably has girls who are dinner only (no intimacy), it seems you’ll have to accept it and move on. The frustrating part is not knowing whether she truly is dinner-only, or whether she simply wasn’t physically attracted to you.
As for gifts, the moment someone asks me for one, my feelings immediately cool off and I end things.
Take good care of your monthly arrangement, let her help heal your wounded heart, learn from this unfortunate experience, and move on to the next offer.
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That’s impressive—you’re a scammer, all right.
But the person who gets scammed is partly to blame too.
For now, I’d leave feedback.
I wonder how serious an incident has to be before Universe takes action.
Marika
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I’m Nana Ayase☆
You really went through a painful experience, didn’t you?
First, make sure to give the staff some feedback.
That way, hopefully there won’t be another victim…
Also, next time, try requesting someone with a different type of profile.
If you’ve been choosing younger women, try the mature-woman type instead.
You might unexpectedly meet someone who helps you feel more at ease.
> Mac, what are girls who give off that kind of bad vibe like? Please tell us.
> Then hopefully the questioner won’t have another painful experience.
> Mac, thank you for answering my question. I can kind of understand what you mean—especially the part about girls who keep striking their cutest poses. I can also see what you mean about the ones around the Platinum level who have been there for years being ones to watch out for.
> Everyone, remember this well, okay?
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