Is it genuine when a woman tells you she likes you during intimacy?
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Do women ever say that as a sales tactic, so they can keep a man who gives them an allowance?
A woman I’ve met several times for an adult relationship (intimate) told me “That feels good, I like you” for the first time during intimacy. I don’t get the impression that she likes me as a romantic partner, though.
I’m Meg, a female member.
It’s true.
I say things like, “I like you!” and “I love you!”—both in bed and in my everyday messages.
I’ve never said it as a sales tactic.
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I’m Shingo Lee, a column writer.
Some girls use “I like you” during sex to mean the same thing as “This feels good.” Try asking her yourself.
When it comes to relationships with women, judge them by their actions—not just their words. If you put too much weight on what they say, you may lose your ability to think clearly and make the wrong decision.
If she says she likes you, but is still receiving an allowance, suddenly starts giving you presents, or begins sending more messages on LINE—without her actions matching her words—it’s just part of the game.
Only take it seriously while you’re having sex.
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I’m a male member, Date◎Yume.
I think it could mean both that she’s being professional and that she genuinely likes you. Why not just take it at face value?
You’ll understand what she really means in time. Look forward to finding out.
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I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this one too.
You can probably tell by the way she treats you on a regular basis. And if you can’t, then even if you’re being deceived, I think you might as well enjoy the relationship for what it is.
Besides, even if you’ve been led to believe that she likes you, I don’t think there’s anything in particular to worry about if you are being deceived.
The woman you’re seeing now sounds like a good person.
If meeting someone wonderful makes you happy, I think that’s all that really matters.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
Since she says, “It feels good, I like it,” it’s only natural to take that as meaning she likes having it done to her.
If she were only saying she liked it as part of her job, I’d think she would say that when you weren’t being intimate...
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I’m Aya, a female member.
A papa who gets that excited? Sounds nice, haha.
That said, he may be saying “I like you” during intimacy because he wants you to think well of him, so it’s probably best to take it with a grain of salt.
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I’m Flag Maker, a columnist.
For me, when a woman I’m seeing says, “I like you,” it’s a sign that the relationship is about to fall apart—the beginning of the end.
Right after she says it, I get all excited: “Yaaay!! Me too! I like you! I wuv youuu!” But after a while, an uneasy feeling starts to creep in. Before long, the nature of the relationship changes, and eventually it comes to an end.
Even though I still like her, lol.
That’s what “I like you” from a woman I’m seeing means to me—a sad sign.
I don’t know why. I want to be liked by her, but once she likes me, it’s over. Pretty sad, huh? It’s like I’m working hard just so I can be sad.
Whether that “I like you” is genuine or not, I’ll find out in time.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
There’s no way for someone else to know that. I think it’s best to interpret it as either “she enjoys it and likes having it done to her” or “she likes him as a papa.”
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