Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
Going together when you’re both beginners is far too reckless. You should go by yourself first.
Otherwise, you probably won’t know the proper etiquette, and she may end up feeling that it was a mistake.
If you’re in Tokyo, a woman who said she enjoyed going to adult play bars came in for a reshoot the other day. Why not make her an offer and have her take you there?
That said, I think going alone would be fine too.
Sorry it’s not Mac answering. I’m Kazu, a male member.
Rather than going there with a woman right away, I recommend checking the place out first. The atmosphere at each swingers’ club is different, so choose one that seems suitable for bringing a woman.
If you visit a few times yourself, I think you’ll get a feel for how to enjoy it and what to watch out for.
Adding this after reading Mac’s answer:
> Kazu, have you and Maezawa ever gone alone? That’s amazing—seriously!
When I was around twenty, I had a woman call her regular swingers’ club ahead of time, and then I went alone. That was my first experience at one（笑）. Maybe because it was my first time, but I have no problem going alone. When you’re checking a place out, I think it’s best to tell the manager that’s what you’re doing.
I’ve also gone alone to swingers’ clubs abroad and had group sex a few times（笑）.
> Also, it’s a good idea to visit several places and find one where you feel comfortable. I visited eight, and two felt comfortable, so I keep going back.
Exactly. Some places suit you, and some don’t.
One more addition:
> If you’re twenty, you can probably go alone. But for a dating-club regular over forty, that’s a pretty high hurdle（笑）.
That’s true... But if you say, “I’m here to check the place out,” I don’t think they’ll treat you coldly.
> They have swingers’ clubs overseas too? I’m surprised. You don’t mean a group-sex bar with professional women, do you?
They do. They were ordinary couples, of course, and there were no charges beyond the entrance fee and drinks. I brought condoms, but they also had some available for free（笑）.
