I’m a Type C female member, and my biggest problem is that arrangements never continue. I’ve never gone on dates with the same person more than five times.
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Even when we hit it off on the first date and I feel like we could stay on good terms, they leave my messages on read when I invite them out again, and I never hear back.
Should I follow up more persistently?
Or would it be better to make the first meeting dinner only (no intimacy) and wait until the second date or later for an adult relationship (intimate)?
I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I’m not entirely sure of the reason either, but I think they’ve decided you’re not quite someone they want to continue seeing.
To make it easier for things to continue, why not suggest arrangements that make going on dates more convenient? The fact that you’re receiving offers probably means you’re an attractive person, but if your allowance is high, it may be difficult to maintain an ongoing arrangement.
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I’m Dai, a male member.
The women I want to keep seeing long-term are those I’m sexually compatible with or can talk to openly without feeling the need to be overly careful.
But realistically, only the men who have actually dated you can tell you what might be causing the issue.
Of course, if you ask a man you used to see, he probably won’t give you an honest answer.
So why not have an adult relationship (intimate) with the next man who offers, and then ask him directly afterward, “Actually, I’m having trouble making these relationships last. Do you have any idea why?”
By the way, if you’re planning to make the first meeting dinner only and begin an adult relationship (intimate) from the second meeting onward, you should switch to Type B.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Why is that?
When it comes to a man’s motivation to meet again, I feel it’s usually something like:
First, he wants to have H again.
After that, it depends on the person—enjoying the conversation, having a relationship that feels like dating, finding a good balance, and so on.
So, calmly speaking...
Is it about improving the H?
Are there any things men don’t like during H?
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I’m Meg, a female member.
I see, I see.
It must be frustrating when arrangements don’t continue. But it sounds like you’re getting a fair number of offers.
Honestly, I’d love to meet you and offer some advice.
If you contact the staff and ask for Meg, the respondent, they may be able to put you in touch with me…
If you’re okay with me, feel free to reach out anytime♪
(I’m a D-type member and currently seeing one papa on an ongoing basis.)
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I’m Tetsu, a male member.
In my experience, only about one in three women I’ve met has made it to five or more meetings. Looking back at the women I met that many times, they were all easygoing—no obvious lies or annoying games. I’m also not really into women who seem overly seasoned when it comes to relationships.
I don’t know how many men you’ve met, but maybe you’ve simply been unlucky with your matches. Forcing yourself to accommodate someone else just to make things last would be stressful, so I think all you can do is wait for a man who will accept you as you are.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here.
> We really hit it off on the first meeting.
You may have hit it off before H, but if you think back carefully, perhaps things weren’t that exciting during or after H.
There can be various reasons, but if H wasn’t enjoyable, it’s probably more common for things not to continue.
That said, I wish someone who had actually met her could tell you bluntly what the cause was.
Still, it’s difficult to point out the other person’s shortcomings, isn’t it...?
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Please stop with the follow-up messages—they’re annoying.
I think it’s worth trying to postpone the adult relationship (intimate), but keep in mind that you may not be able to meet a second time either.
Rather than relying on little tricks like that, I believe what matters is giving the other person a high level of satisfaction.
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