The day before the date is arranged, the staff gives us the gentleman’s mobile number. I suddenly wondered—couldn’t something like that be misused by a woman with bad intentions?
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Or do they use company phones, so there’s no issue? I’d appreciate it if someone could enlighten me.
I’m Nana Ayase ♡
I’ve submitted my personal information to Universe, so I feel reassured about that. Still, just in case, I don’t bring credit cards or large amounts of cash.
There’s always a chance they could look up my driver’s license while I’m in the bath, so it’s better to be cautious.
What could they actually find out from my phone number in such a short time?
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
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I tried to think of what someone could actually do with just a phone number—without having met yet and knowing absolutely nothing about the person’s private information.
I couldn’t think of anything.
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I'm Kazu, a male member.
If you're concerned, I think it's a good idea to get a phone specifically for club activities.
However, as the relationship progresses, she may learn more personal information about you than just your phone number. So if you're worried, it's best to bring nothing but that phone, some cash, and condoms when you go on a date. Also, just in case, keep a ¥10,000 bill under the insole of your shoe.
I used to do that when I was on dating sites, since I considered the possibility of being targeted by a honey trap.
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I’m だて◎ゆめ, a male member.
I think all you can do is trust your ability to judge the women you make offers to—and trust the women themselves.
If you feel someone might be dangerous, just don’t make them an offer.
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Maezawa from Shachōshitsu here—I’ll answer this one too.
What kind of misuse are you worried about? Even if someone finds out your phone number the day before instead of on the day itself, I don’t see how it would make much difference.
Besides, if you’re worried about your phone number itself being misused, it might be better not to make offers to women in the first place.
There are risks involved in everything. But I don’t think a phone number alone poses that much of a risk...
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