My papa sometimes can’t perform because he can’t get aroused.

I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer as well. > I don’t know what I should say in that situation. I think it’s best not to say anything. If the man still thinks there’s a possibility, he’ll probably keep being affectionate for a little longer or say something like, “Maybe we should take a short break.” If he feels it’s probably not going to work, he may say something like, “Should we take a shower?” So I think it’s fine to simply go along with him. > If I don’t say anything, it feels awkward. You’re probably the only one who feels that way. The man is actually thinking about what to do next because he can’t get an erection, so I don’t think he minds at all if you don’t say anything. > How would a man feel if the woman suggested this to him? I think it would be better to suggest ED medication first. The reason is that more people are familiar with medication than with shockwave ED treatment. That said, either way, I feel like it would be awkward for a woman to bring it up. Some men may also say they can’t take it because they have high blood pressure. I do wish they’d go talk to a clinic that prescribes ED medication at least once. That way, they might find out that there isn’t actually a serious problem. But some people still can’t bring themselves to take that step. Maybe you’re asking about shockwave ED treatment for men who say they don’t want to take medication. But it’s hard to know whether it actually works.

I’m Fuu, a column writer. Worrying about him is a thoughtful and caring thing to do. Start by saying something like, “You must be tired—you’ve been working so hard,” or simply give him a hug or a kiss without saying anything, then take a short break. I sometimes lose my arousal partway through, too, but my regulars know exactly what to do. We’ll take a little break while holding each other, and afterward they’ll gently stimulate me with their hands. Once I’m lightly aroused, some will initiate oral play, while others will help me get fully aroused and then let me take the lead. They’re also good at making encouraging sounds. If you’re comfortable with it, try different things and figure out what your papa (a male supporter) likes, then see if you can help him get aroused. If he still can’t, medication may be the easiest place to start, so I recommend it. ED medication can be prescribed by a doctor.

I’m Kazu, a male member. I’ve never tried it because ICI therapy worked for me. How someone feels about a woman suggesting a treatment depends on their personality and the nature of the relationship, I think. Are you a papa who’s already taking medication?