Why do you go out of your way to pay for an intimate relationship with an ordinary woman?
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Many of the men answering here seem extremely confident, and I would think that if you’re really that self-assured, beautiful women would naturally be drawn to you. Are you saying that women simply wouldn’t approach you unless you paid them?
Maezawa from the President’s Office will answer this one as well.
I’m not sure whether the person asking is male or female, but it seems surprisingly uncommon to meet someone of the opposite sex outside of work.
People with hobbies may meet potential partners through them, but the better the hobby group is, the more you may worry that dating someone in the group could make things awkward and leave you feeling unable to stay involved if the relationship doesn’t work out.
That means there are actually very few places to meet someone without any strings attached. And if you’re too old for group dates, then…
In that situation, looking for someone through a dating app or a dating club doesn’t seem unnatural anymore.
Of course, some people do look for partners through their hobbies or at work, but it ultimately comes down to how much risk you’re willing to accept.
For example, even men in their twenties sometimes pay women through dating apps, so it can be extremely difficult for men of a certain age to find someone willing to date them without money being involved.
Dating apps also come with scams, setups, no-shows, people sending someone else in their place, and various other problems, making them rather inefficient.
So even men who would normally attract women without money being involved may end up registering with a dating club as a place to meet someone.
And I think that may be precisely because they have the financial means to do so.
Incidentally, many of the men registered with dating clubs seem to be fairly popular for their age.
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I’m Fuu, a column writer.
Yes. In my case, attractive young women outside the papa-katsu scene wouldn’t date me unless I paid them. As I’ve written in my columns, I’ve spent my life being unpopular, so I have a clear, realistic understanding of my own looks and what they’re worth.
That’s why I don’t get the wrong idea. I make the most of this club, pay an allowance the other person is comfortable with, and carefully choose our date locations so that attractive women with good personalities are willing to see me. With my favorite female members, I treat them politely, show consideration, take good care of them, and pay attention to my personal cleanliness so they won’t come to dislike me.
For the women Fuu continues seeing, compatibility in an adult relationship (intimate) is the most important factor—but it’s not as if just anyone will do. Being considerate and thoughtful is also extremely important for maintaining an ongoing arrangement.
Incidentally, no matter how beautiful a woman is, I don’t continue seeing anyone who is all about money, constantly complains, or is negative. So the person asking the question can rest assured—there won’t be any ongoing arrangement（笑）
I’m grateful for the power of money, the way this club works, and my favorite partners who continue seeing me!
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This is Nana Ayase.
Haven’t you been reading too many manga?
Women aren’t going to flock to you that easily.
You both know each other’s jobs and real names, so if she came on to you and things ended up in court, wouldn’t that be a hassle?
One of the advantages of a dating club is that you can cut ties quickly if something happens. I hope you understand that now.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
Isn’t it a hassle to find a woman you’d like to sleep with, court her, and eventually get her into bed?
In this world, when people are drawn to someone, it’s because they’re seeking something they expect to gain from being involved with that person. Confidence is usually backed by some kind of successful experience.
For any relationship to continue, both people have to feel satisfied with the balance between what they offer and what they receive. I believe that’s true whether the relationship is through a dating club or outside one.
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I’m a male member who goes by “Paper Airplane.”
Once you’re in your 50s, you realize you probably have less life ahead of you than behind you…
Searching endlessly for a once-in-three-, five-, or even ten-year encounter is becoming nearly impossible. Time is limited, money is involved, and perhaps this is the point in life when an efficient relationship can be enjoyable in its own way.
By the way, what else are you going to spend the money and time you’ve earned and acquired on besides women?
Don’t we live to spend generously on—and leave something behind for—the wife or special person we love?
If you can’t spend enough on your beloved wife, girlfriend, or mistress, isn’t that why papa-katsu and dating clubs exist?
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I’m Aya, a female member.
My papa resembles a certain actor and is very popular, but once a man is in his 50s, I think he needs to have a certain amount of money to attract younger women.
No matter how handsome he is, wouldn’t he still need the right setting to pursue a younger woman—such as an upscale dinner or an amazing experience that a younger man couldn’t take her to?
I was talking to my papa earlier, and he said, “Even after a man gets married, he still spends a lot of money on a woman, right? That’s what responsibility means. Relationships between men and women cost money.”
I guess everyone has their own way of thinking.
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