If a female member a male member has been meeting regularly after making her an offer gets noticeably prettier in her new photos six months after joining, making him think she may receive more offers, would he want to see her more often? Or would he simply think that she has become more accustomed to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)?
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Or, to begin with, do men not look at the photos of a woman they have made an offer to and meet regularly?
I have two male members whom I meet about once a month. Neither of them comments on my activities, and both have maintained this pace for the past six months. I think they will probably continue seeing me from now on as well. However, I told them that I would ideally like to meet twice a month, but they seem to have their own circumstances and haven't been able to do so, so I'm thinking of going in for a new photo shoot.
What are your personal feelings about this? I'd appreciate hearing your thoughts.
I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s office, and I’ll answer this too.
Some people do care about it. Others may simply choose not to say anything.
So there’s no need to go out of your way to advertise your activities.
Continue seeing those two at the pace you have been, and I think it’s perfectly normal to have new photos taken and look for more papas.
That said, you should ask the club staff to hide your profile from those two men.
Have new photos taken and look for some new papas as well.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
When someone updates their profile, it moves back to the top of the homepage, so you end up seeing it even if you don’t want to.
Since I’ve already met her, I look at her photos more as a comparison with the impression I got in person. If the photo matches her overall vibe, I think, “Yeah, that’s her.” If it’s a particularly flattering shot, I’ll think, “Wow, that photo really makes her look good.” I’m sure there are guys who get drawn in by that and send her an offer, but I wouldn’t do that myself. I already know what she’s really like.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t usually look at my partner’s profile, but I will if I hear she’s gone in for new photos.
When I hear that, I think, “Oh, I guess she isn’t satisfied with seeing me.” But I don’t feel inclined to increase how often we meet. Other people are other people, and I’m me.
That said, your situation is a little different, since you want to meet twice a month but he only agrees to once a month. Every man has his own way of thinking, but in my case, a woman I see once a month isn’t a particular favorite—she’s someone I’m keeping on the back burner. Even if she goes in for new photos, I probably wouldn’t notice unless she told me, and even if her photos looked better, it wouldn’t make me want to increase how often we meet.
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I’m Papercraft, a male member.
I think it would be a good idea to go in for a reshoot.
The fact that you don’t want to meet her a second time makes it sound like this is, at most, a continuing arrangement for now. If it’s already been six months, it may be nearing its end anyway. A reshoot could speed that up, but if you’re considering it, I think you should go for a new offer through the reshoot.
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