I’m a female member. Soon after registering, I received offers from two men and became intimate with them that same day. We exchanged LINE contacts, and both of them message or call me almost every day. They say they want to see me, and I’ve told them I want to see them too, but it’s been about a month without setting a date because they say they’re busy with work. One of them canceled at the last minute on the day of our date, but we’ve continued messaging on LINE since then.

I’m Maezawa from the CEO’s Office, and I’ll answer this one too. Even though he messages you on LINE almost every day, not seeing you for a month seems a little harsh. He may be more interested in chatting on LINE, so why not try replying only when it’s about making plans? Even if he brings up something he wants to try next time, you could just respond with set phrases like: “I’m looking forward to seeing you on the __th.” or “When shall we meet next?” It might be best to keep replying with only that, as if it were a template. If the relationship ends because of that, then perhaps it was for the best. If he asks why, you could simply not respond—or, in any case, try replying only to messages about scheduling. When you meet, you could steer the conversation in a positive direction by saying something like: “I didn’t like not knowing when we’d meet even though I wanted to see you, so please make more time to see me from now on.”

Ayase Nana ♡ A LINE attack? I’ve had that happen once too… On top of “Good morning” and “Good night,” he’d message me saying he was going out drinking, going to a hot spring, heading to the sauna, or on his way home. He’d also send about six stickers in response to a single message. I kept my phone on vibrate at night, but it would wake me up around 2 a.m. Since I was busy with work, I could only see him once every two weeks. I remember feeling relieved when things ended with him. You should just cut ties with anyone who says they can’t see you because they’re busy.

I’m Basil, a male member. When work gets busy or my schedule is already filled with existing partners, it’s not unusual for a second meeting to be a month later. In situations like that, though, I don’t contact them every day. That said, if I really like someone, I may prioritize meeting her over plans with an existing partner. I think you’re probably being kept on the back burner because he doesn’t want to let you go and hopes to see you when he has more time.

I’m a male member, “Paper Airplane.” If I have a month, and I really like someone, I’ll go out of my way to see her four, five, six times—or even more. If I like her, I’ll still go see her once or twice. If I don’t like her, I won’t go see her. As for LINE, I only message about one-fifth or one-sixth to one-tenth as much as the person does in her questions. Since you were the one who made the initial offer, this should be your chance. Unfortunately, though, your LINE messages may not be getting you anything in return… (The content also comes across as rather stingy, and I feel it may be making the other person lose interest.)