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I assume most women date several men, but do you ever wonder what kind of other men the woman you’re seeing is dating?

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Meg
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Age: 50s 👩 Female Former Universe member
I’m Meg, a female member. What!!! It’s just one person, though…
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I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. I was curious, though(笑) Since she didn’t talk much, I tried not to ask. After our relationship ended, she started calling me, and as I listened to her quietly share her troubles, I came to understand what had been going on and learned a lot from her.
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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Flag Maker, a column writer. I do feel a little curious, though. I don’t ask them myself, but some women do volunteer the information.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe staff
I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this too. I think it’s only natural to be curious. That said, I feel like it’s more likely to be something positive than a negative. For example, someone might say her boyfriend is handsome, and when she shows you a photo, he really is—or you might see the photo and think he’s nothing special. You can also find out what kinds of things are popular these days, so I feel like you end up being curious about all sorts of things, not just the person you’re seeing. After joining a dating club, you might hear that a lot of people are getting permanent hair removal for their pubic hair and think, “I guess that’s trendy now?” One benefit of interacting with people is that you get to learn about all kinds of things. And I think people from the Showa generation tend to enjoy that sort of thing...
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バジル
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Basil, a male member. I don’t mind if she’s seeing other people, but since it gives me a sense of her preferences, I sometimes bring it up casually, like, “What are the other guys like?”
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I’m Tetsu, a male member. It doesn’t really bother me. I’m just being myself.
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Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. I sometimes listen to the complaints and other stories of women I’m not dating, and I do get a little interested. But when it comes to someone I’m actually dating, I’m not interested in that at all.
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I’m Taro, a male member. That does make me curious. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with having a close relationship where you can be completely honest about things like that, but strangely enough, it never seems to turn out that way. Instead, we end up exchanging those golden sales pitches like, “You’re the only one.” I suppose that’s just the universal etiquette in these relationships.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m Kazu, a male member. Yes, I’m curious because it sounds interesting.
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