Where do you get conversation topics to connect with younger women? I’m on Instagram. TikTok, Twitter, and YouTube can help you discover songs young people listen to, but they’re often K-pop, so it’s difficult.
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I don’t have any young people around me, personally.
I also learned about papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) through the internet. Now there’s a lovely, cute girl beside me. Thank you!
I’m Mamiya from Universe Club’s PR team.
I also wanted to understand how young people think, so I recently fell down the BTS rabbit hole and became a new ARMY.
I think videos have played a big part in Universe Club’s success as well, so why not start by signing up for TikTok? There’s plenty besides Korean pop culture, and I’ve been posting despite not knowing much myself, but I think social media—along with YouTube—will be a major source of information going forward!
Even if you’re not interested in a particular topic, simply listening to what women have to say can be fascinating. Someone who knows there’s still a lot they don’t know is probably more likely to win people over than a man who seems to know everything!
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I’m Fuu, a columnist.
I don’t take the same approach with everyone—I tailor it to each PJ.
First, I study their profile, look up the hobbies they’ve listed online, and then go into the first meeting prepared. If they mention an anime or movie they like, I watch it. I also research their favorite artists, beauty-related interests, and so on.
I never pretend to know more than I do. I simply take the approach of saying, “You said you liked it, so I checked it out.”
The internet age sure is convenient.
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I’m Flagmaker, a column writer.
I’m the type who really goes along with the interests and preferences of the women I’m seeing regularly. Honestly, I’m afraid of running out of things to talk about, lol.
But it also helps broaden my own knowledge, interests, and hobbies. Even if I stop seeing a woman, what I’ve gained from it stays with me.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s Office here—I’ll answer too.
You’re taking this awfully seriously. You don’t need to be so tense about it; I feel like you’ll naturally figure it out by dating a lot of women.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
I don’t think you need to consume content on the same level as they do. What’s the point of learning all that useless information?
The question was where to get conversation topics, right? I just use the news and the things I’ve always been interested in. I don’t consciously seek out anything specifically to have something to talk about with younger women.
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I’m Aya, a female member.
You may come across as off-putting if you have a mature charm but seem to be forcing yourself to keep up with younger people. However, if you’re genuinely interested in the other person and asking deeper questions, I think they’d be happy about it.
I recently started getting into a K-pop boy group called ENHYPEN and joined a fan community, only to be shocked that everyone but me was in middle or high school. It’s interesting in its own way, so I’m still enjoying interacting with them rather than leaving.
Korean beauty YouTubers are fun to watch too, since they have such beautiful skin. Korean content really is incredibly high-quality.
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I’m Paper Airplane, a male member.
You can leave that sort of thing to her friends. If you simply listen to her talk about everyday events, you’ll never run out of things to discuss.
Hopefully, you’ll be naturally drawn to each other, appreciating one another’s charms at your respective ages.
Being able to enjoy and feel comforted by pointless little conversations.
Getting excited together over something that casually happens right in front of you.
That’s only possible when you’re truly compatible.
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I’m Taro, a male member.
If you’re already seeing a woman, the best approach is to show genuine interest in the things she likes and ask thoughtful questions to learn more about them.
Trying to force yourself to do things you dislike or find difficult doesn’t feel very cool to me.
The quickest way is simply to open your heart and let yourself be inspired and influenced by younger women.
Before long, women your own age will start to seem incredibly old（笑).
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