The guy who gave her an STI, paid only for the initial treatment, and then kept screaming at her to go back is disgusting. Chlamydia Ojisan. Isn’t paying compensation, getting down on your knees to apologize, and doing whatever it takes to ease her anxiety the bare minimum?

I’m Fuu, a column writer. What happened to you, questioner? You sound really aggressive. Honestly, this is a pretty sad piece of writing. Even if you’re acting, if this is how you really feel, your papas can probably see through you while you’re doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), and it doesn’t seem like anything good will come of it. In your previous question, you also said you didn’t know which of you had passed on the STI. They can spread from man to woman, woman to man, man to woman, and so on. It’s not necessarily something only the male papa (a male supporter) brings into the relationship. Here’s an example from the PJ side. Once, the boyfriend of a PJ I was seeing got an STI. She immediately told me that I might have it too, so I got tested right away—and thankfully, I was negative. There was trust between that girl and me, and she told me right away about something that’s difficult to bring up, like an STI. She’s the best PJ I’ve ever known. Papa-katsu may be a crude activity built around money, but when two real people treat each other with mutual respect, I think it can become a fun and happy experience. That last part sounded a bit like Mr. Kinpachi.

Maezawa from the CEO’s office here—I’ll answer this one too. > What does the club mean by a “gentleman”? Every company’s rules include this wonderfully vague, all-purpose clause: “Members must behave like gentlemen.” It isn’t meant to define exactly what makes someone a gentleman. Rather, each member is expected to think about it for themselves and conduct their activities accordingly. It also has another useful purpose: dealing with people who say things like, “I didn’t violate any rules. Why am I being expelled? Tell me which rule I broke.” It allows us to say: “Your behavior was not gentlemanly, so you are being expelled.” It’s basically the club’s trump card. So male members are supposed to think, “Am I being a gentleman? What should I do to act like one?” and behave accordingly… or at least, that’s how it’s supposed to work… supposedly… supposedly… hopefully.

I’m Kazu, a male member. Perhaps you should try to be a little more composed. As for the question, we don’t know which of you transmitted it to the other, so the hypothetical premise doesn’t really hold up.

I’m a male member, Paper Airplane. Well, papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is an embarrassing secret for both men and women… Why not team up as a loud, bickering comedy duo and make a scene with some manzai?