It’s been about three weeks since I signed up, and I’d appreciate some advice on how to keep receiving offers consistently. This may be a frequently asked question, but I’d really appreciate your help.

I’m Akai, a staff member at Universe Club, and I’d like to answer as well. Eleven offers in just two weeks is incredible... From the perspective of staff who handle offers, it’s quite rare for a woman to receive that many offers so soon after registering. You mentioned that the offers have suddenly stopped, but I don’t think there’s any need to panic just yet. There will always be periods when no offers come in at all. You’re probably just going through one of those periods now. That said, there are features such as “Lovely,” which allows women to approach men, and the “Calendar” function, which makes your schedule easier for men to understand. So please make good use of those as well.

I’m Meg, a female member. As for setting an earnings goal... Maybe this isn’t really the place to come if your main aim is to make money. For now, don’t rush—start by valuing the people who are willing to meet with you.

Getting 11 offers in two weeks must have made scheduling difficult. Even if I could use all my free time, there are only four days in a two-week period when I could go on dates. Still, you probably should have tried to work something out with the four offers that didn’t come to fruition, even if it meant scheduling them a little further out. Also, meeting seven people and finding only two you’d want to continue with means your standards are too high. If you have a target amount, you should be willing to put up with a little inconvenience and compromise as well. Your approach is really more suited to someone looking to find one person they genuinely feel comfortable seeing. That said, there seem to be quite a few people who wait until the initial rush of offers to popular women dies down, so you may still receive more offers. If you don’t, you may have received multiple negative reviews. Marika

I’m Kazu, a male member. If you stay registered, it seems you may continue receiving offers, though they’ll probably taper off to a few per month or one every few months. There’s no need to panic just because you haven’t received one for a week. Think about it: at first, the offers came from active male members who were already registered. The staff may also have recommended you to men who seemed like they might be your type. However, several new female members join every day, so the staff can’t keep promoting you indefinitely. Moreover, 7 successful arrangements out of 11 offers seems somewhat low. From the staff’s perspective, you may come across as someone they’re hesitant to recommend to male members because there’s a high chance those men could end up disappointed. At this point, all you can do is wait for a new male member—or an existing member looking for a new partner—to notice you. That said, 11 offers in two weeks is quite a lot. You may continue receiving a few offers a month, so I think it would be best to wait for them and value each one more carefully. If you feel you’re not reaching your goals, it may be time to choose between compromising and continuing with someone you’ve already met, or waiting until a man you’re happy with appears in a future offer.

I’m Flagmaker, a columnist. What about making reverse offers to members here? I believe we have members from all the major areas—Kanto, Nagoya, Kansai, and so on.

Maezawa from the executive office will answer this as well. Thank you for your question. > 11 offers within about two weeks of registering That’s pretty amazing. Getting 11 offers means you must be a very appealing woman. Clubs are happy to have popular women registered, and naturally hope they’ll stay on the platform for a long time. As for offers, they’re usually most frequent during the first month and then gradually decrease. I haven’t seen your profile, so I can’t say exactly why they suddenly stopped. One possibility is that, toward the end, you had very few available dates. Since you had already gone on 11 dates, the staff may have assumed it would be difficult to coordinate your schedule, and temporarily hidden your profile. Generally speaking, the impression is that women continue seeing about 70–80% of the men they meet. If you continued seeing around eight men, and went on one or two dates a month with each of them, your schedule would already be filled for 8–16 days every month. In that case, it’s likely that new men’s preferred dates wouldn’t work, so the club may decide to hide your profile temporarily and wait until things settle down. Another possibility is that you received negative feedback from men you had already met. For example, if someone reported that you were late, men who don’t want to meet women who are late may stop sending offers, causing the number to decline. Since I haven’t seen the details, all I can say is that this is one possibility, but it may not be the case at all. Even if nothing happened, it’s normal for offers to be most frequent at first and then decrease. Since you received as many as 11 offers, I feel you’ll probably continue receiving one or two offers a month on a regular basis. I hope you’ll find someone you really like among them. If finding someone soon is important to you, you may also need to consider meeting men who didn’t seem ideal at first but weren’t necessarily bad either. Still, I think it’s best to avoid compromising and only date people you genuinely like. Of course, taking your time to look is perfectly fine too.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. Everything has a window of freshness: three days, three weeks, three months. And opportunities come with the first three, five, or ten people. The key is to seize them without letting them slip away. It seems the club has rules (or laws?) like that. Water never flows uphill. P.S. The earlier someone makes you an offer, the more interested they tend to be. So, as a shortcut—and for the future as well—try to make those people want to see you more often. From the club’s perspective, once you’ve gone on dates with five people, you’ve basically served your purpose for the time being (you’ve contributed enough, and they’re grateful).