Thank you as always.

I’m Paper Airplane, a male member. Unless you’re quite old, you may already have more than enough women who fulfill you both physically and emotionally. In that case, if she’s a Type B woman—or even a Type C woman who leans toward B—there’s no need to ask unless she invites you first. She’ll always be the one to make the first move, both because she wants you to be satisfied with her and because she wants to confirm your compatibility. Things tend to develop naturally from there. If you like her, try asking her casually. I think you’ll get an affirmative answer.

I’m Date◎Yume, a male member. I’m with Mr. Maezawa on this one! That actually makes sense. Maybe he’s just not confident about H, haha.

Maezawa from the CEO’s office here, answering as well. That person is a genuine papa (a male supporter). (笑) No, I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with people who want an adult relationship (intimate). You know how there are sometimes men who get intimate with you without giving you an allowance? Men who seem to think it’s love, or say they want a relationship without money involved—basically, men who’ve misunderstood the arrangement. Compared with those men, that’s what makes him “genuine.” In other words, he doesn’t hesitate to give you an allowance just to meet. But he doesn’t want you to be intimate with him simply because of the allowance. What I mean is, he genuinely wants to be in a relationship with you. The allowance is naturally part of it, but he wants you to be the one to say things like, “I don’t want to go home tonight,” or he’ll wait until you’re the one who says you want him to hold you. I think he’s the kind of person who would be happy if it happened when you genuinely wanted it. Many women probably don’t understand what he means and simply let things end there. But perhaps he’s waiting for that “moment” when the woman comes to like him and expresses her feelings first. Maybe they stay together for about six months, and if she still doesn’t say anything, they part ways. I don’t know how long you’ve been seeing him, but if this has made you wonder, I feel that perhaps you should realize he may be waiting for you to make the first move. That said, if you haven’t developed genuine feelings that you’d be comfortable being intimate with him or that you’d like to reciprocate, then I think it’s best to leave things as they are. I believe he’s waiting for you to make that decision sincerely.

I’m Flagmaker, a column writer. I considered all kinds of possibilities, but in the end, it all depends on what that man is thinking, so I couldn’t say for sure. However, there was one thing they all had in common: the desire to be liked. So if you want to solve the mystery, try falling deeply in love with him. I think that will help you understand his true intentions and solve the mystery. Update: I received a separate request for a fortune reading, so I decided to read the tarot cards for this situation as well. ① What is the man thinking? → Ten of Wands, upright This card depicts a man desperately carrying ten wands. His posture even suggests an attachment to them, as if he absolutely refuses to let go. In other words, he may be acting this way because he absolutely doesn’t want you to dislike him—or, more specifically, because he’s under that kind of psychological pressure. ② What should you do? → Four of Pentacles, upright This card depicts a miser clutching four coins protectively. Upright, it means prioritizing secure profits. So I think it’s perfectly fine to value your current relationship and prioritize a steady allowance without an adult relationship. However, as advice, this card can also be interpreted as saying that you should experience the joy of sharing with another person instead of prioritizing profit alone. In other words, the man is probably feeling insecure. In the short term, it’s fine to maintain your current relationship and receive a steady allowance. But if you’re considering a long-term relationship, treating him as someone important and engaging with him sincerely as a person may lead to an even better relationship. Whether you believe this reading or not is up to you, lol.

I’m Basil, a male member. Maybe he simply lacks confidence in that department?

It probably varies from person to person… For the first four dates, my papa (a male supporter) took me out to dinner, from ○ to ○. When we stayed overnight, he arranged a separate room for me and offered an allowance of ○, then tried to head home just like that. On another occasion, we traveled somewhere far away, and even though he offered ○, nothing happened until morning. In both cases, I was the one who wanted to, so I invited him and we ended up becoming intimate (lol). In this case, the woman’s class doesn’t matter. What matters is her dating type. For reference, I’m a C. My papa doesn’t have much of a sex drive. He’s the type who just wants to enjoy good food and relax at a nice hotel or traditional inn. I absolutely adore him, but I honestly wonder why he chooses to be with me. We don’t see each other very often, but somehow it’s been about ten months now. Marika P.S. We ended up just wondering about it together and leaving it at that (lol). I’m puzzled too. I guess there really are occasionally people who aren’t only looking for an adult relationship (intimate). P.P.S. I’m adding this since some men have answered as well. The papa I mentioned earlier did say that it had been years since he’d been intimate with anyone, and he wasn’t sure whether he still could. So, as Basil and Riichi pointed out, it seems he lacked confidence. He also said he didn’t have much of a sex drive and wasn’t interested in anything after dinner, but he did bring condoms. Even after he knew he could, though, nothing happened unless I invited him. So I think it’s hard to say that a physical relationship was his only goal. For my papa’s honor, I should add (lol): he wasn’t poorly endowed or premature—everything worked perfectly normally! P.P.P.S. This is actually the first time I’ve ever included the amount in an answer. I left it visible for a few hours, but I’ve changed it to ○.