I’m thinking 3–4 hours for dinner plus a hotel,
and 2 hours for the hotel alone.
It feels a little off when a papa (a male supporter) sets aside extra time and expects the date to last 4–6 hours...
I feel like leaving things just a little short makes you look forward to seeing each other again.
I’m Aya, a female member.
When meeting after work, I think starting at 6 p.m. and wrapping things up by 10 p.m. is just about right.
It’s better to leave each other wanting a little more, don’t you think?
That said, I do stay overnight with a monthly papa (a male supporter) I’m especially close to. Sometimes we’ll stay for two nights, so we’re together the whole time—but we get along so well that I never get tired of being around him.
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Maezawa from the CEO’s office here with an answer as well.
As you said, I think it’s more enjoyable when you part while still wishing you could spend a little more time together—it gives you something to look forward to next time.
So:
> Dinner + hotel: 3–4 hours
> Hotel: 2 hours
Those seem like just the right amounts of time.
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I’m Basil, a male member.
For me, it’s generally about three to four hours for dinner plus a hotel, or around two hours if it’s just the hotel.
On my days off, I have various things I want to do and tend to pack my schedule, so honestly, I don’t want to spend any more time than that. But since I’m not tying up the other person’s time either, I conveniently like to think of myself as a supposedly “good” papa.
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I’m Flag Maker, a column writer.
I can really relate to that. I intentionally make every date feel just a little unsatisfying. I also make myself come across as a somewhat underwhelming guy.
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I’m Kazu, a male member.
It varies from woman to woman, but with some, we spend four to five hours together, while with others, it’s seven to eight hours, occasionally including an overnight stay. If she has plans and wants to leave early, we might wrap things up after about three hours.
It probably wouldn’t last unless she’s the kind of person where you look up and realize, “Wow, it’s already this late.”
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