Why do some people lick their fingers before putting them inside me?

I’m Maezawa from the President’s Office, and I’ll answer this as well. Thank you for your question. I’m not entirely sure, but perhaps he once tried to insert a finger and was told by a woman, “That hurts, that hurts”? Even if a woman says she’s already wet, she may not actually be that wet. If the man has only spent a relatively short time on foreplay, she might still end up saying it hurts despite saying she’s already wet. Maybe men who’ve had that experience lick their fingers just in case. > It feels gross when I think about someone putting saliva inside me. Hmm? In that case, do you also avoid kissing? If you dislike things along those lines, this may not be for you. I think it would be better to only do this with someone you really love. If it’s someone you love deeply, I don’t think you’d find it gross. > Would it kill the mood if I told him not to put a finger he’s licked inside me? He’d probably try to act normal and get through the moment without making things awkward, but I think he may decide not to see you again after that. That said, if you’re attractive, many men will put up with minor things. So if you’re confident in yourself, I think you should be open about anything you don’t like. That way, the relationship is more likely to last.

I’m a male member, “Paper Airplane.” I think the questioner’s concerns are completely understandable, and I agree with them. > Can’t you tell whether I’m wet without putting it in? Yes, you can. If you’re both in the mood and compatible, it’s pretty obvious. Some girls even become Pavlovian vaginas over time, getting aroused more and more every time they meet. > Would it kill the mood if I told him not to put his fingers in after licking them? Licked fingers are gross. If there’s something you don’t like, it’s better to say so right then and there. If you don’t, the other guy will assume that you’re okay with—or even welcoming—those kinds of things, since men can’t know unless you tell them. That just means you’ll spend longer enduring something you don’t enjoy. Neither men nor women need that much time to climax, and men can sometimes finish in just a few minutes. So in your case, it may be best to keep the bedtime portion short. As for ways to prevent it—so his saliva doesn’t end up down there, lol—you could keep hugging while you play, keep kissing throughout, say, “I feel safer when your face is close,” and keep his face nearby, or say, “My back is really sensitive,” and have him continue focusing on caressing your back while holding you. You’ll need to get into a slightly romantic, couple-like mood and become aroused and wet yourself, though…

I’m Kazu, a male member. First of all, I usually perform oral sex, and I don’t insert my fingers until the woman asks me to. So by the time I do, she’s already very wet. That’s why I answered based on my past experiences. > Can’t you tell whether she’s wet without inserting your fingers? Some women don’t get wet enough for it to flow outside, so it can be difficult to tell depending on the woman. > What’s the point of putting saliva on your fingers? Since she isn’t wet enough externally, it’s to avoid causing pain when inserting them. Once they’re inside, there’s natural lubrication, so you can use that afterward. In my case, I lightly touch her first before putting saliva on my fingers. If she isn’t wet, I lick my fingers so it won’t hurt. > Would it kill the mood if I asked you not to insert fingers after licking them? Yes, it would. I imagine someone would say that the first time they have sex with me. Even if she didn’t say she disliked fingers that had been licked, I’d probably find the sex boring. Since the sex would be boring, unless she had some really great qualities outside of sex, I probably wouldn’t see her again.