Tips Feb 10, 2023 00:54

Regarding Type B

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I made an offer to a newly registered Type B woman, and we’re planning our fourth meeting this month. The woman I’m seeing is Type B, and she decides whether to pursue an adult relationship (intimate) after the fourth or fifth meeting. At our first meeting, we agreed to continue seeing each other for dinner only (no intimacy), on a pay-per-meeting basis of 1. At our second meeting, I learned about her background and offered to support her, but she declined, saying she felt uncomfortable accepting it. On the spur of the moment, I asked—fully prepared for her to turn me down—whether we could pursue a relationship that included an adult relationship (intimate). After thinking for four or five minutes, she agreed on the spot. We decided on the terms (of the arrangement) after she gave me her answer: no seeing other supporters, and 15 per meeting. I didn’t join the club with the intention of pursuing an adult relationship, so I feel hesitant about it. I’m wondering whether I should ask her to continue seeing me for dinner only (no intimacy), at 15 per meeting. Considering that she previously declined my offer of support, I have a feeling the relationship may come to an end. Should I invite her to pursue an adult relationship? Part of me wants to treat her well and continue seeing her. I would appreciate hearing from both male and female members. Thank you in advance.
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I get the feeling that several important details have been left out of the question, but I’ll give it a shot. First of all, I don’t think anyone would turn down an offer of 15 after being offered 1 for a dinner-only arrangement. That said, she might find it creepy, so you should clearly explain your reasoning. I’m not sure why she turned down the offer of support after telling you about her background, but if she’s the kind of woman who can only feel comfortable receiving something in return for doing something, then you could make the offer together with a reason that fits. For example, the terms for an adult relationship (intimate) casually include “no multiple partners,” but if you offered 15 for a dinner-only arrangement under the same terms, that could serve as the justification. I don’t mean telling her not to eat or have tea with anyone but me; rather, you could say, “I’ll be the only one you have dinner with for money,” or “Please don’t have adult relationships with anyone else.” In other words, you’d be offering an extra 14 in exchange for an exclusive arrangement. You could also give some over-the-top reason like, “I want to be the person closest to you when I see you smiling after working hard to achieve your dreams—teehee.” You could make up a reason so exaggerated that even you’d lose the energy to point out how ridiculous it is. Maybe borrow a line from Weekly Shonen Jump or something. Really, anything works as long as it explains the creepiness—even “I’m just a weird guy.” It’s fine to ask here, but you should also pay close attention to the person you’re dealing with. What wins a woman over differs from woman to woman, and it probably also depends on the context of your interactions after meeting her. The first thing you need to do is analyze all the data from your exchanges after meeting her. No matter how much general advice you get, otherwise it’ll just amount to “throw enough darts and one will hit.” I said at the beginning that important information was missing from the question—that’s what I mean. If you weren’t aware of that, then perhaps that’s the real issue you need to work on. Increase the resolution of your view of life. “From ‘good morning’ to ‘good night.’” Wishing you happiness. Taro
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